In this episode of An Epiphany with Tiffany, I’m joined by Melissa Gendreau, founder of Forward Path with Melissa, for an honest and grounding conversation about feeling “behind” in life — especially when it comes to singleness, marriage, and purpose.

Melissa shares insights from her background as a licensed therapist turned Christian life purpose and marriage coach, helping us unpack comparison, insecurity, all-or-nothing thinking, and the pressure of timelines that don’t actually come from God.

We talk about why the word “should” can quietly create shame, how social media distorts our sense of progress, and why singleness isn’t a waiting room but a meaningful season of growth. This conversation also explores the difference between therapy and coaching, the role of grief in faith, and why marriage doesn’t fix insecurity — it magnifies it.

If you’ve ever wondered, “Why hasn’t this happened for me yet?” or felt stuck between trusting God and grieving unmet expectations, this episode is for you.

My hope is that this conversation helps you release shame, embrace growth, and move forward with humble confidence — right where you are.

• Feeling behind in singleness, marriage, and life milestones

• Why the word “should” can be harmful

• Comparison and the pressure of timelines

• The gift and growth opportunities of singleness

• Black-and-white thinking versus living in nuance

• Why marriage doesn’t fix insecurity

• Therapy vs. coaching and when each is helpful

• Faith, grief, and trusting God with unmet expectations

• Practical wisdom for singles navigating insecurity and emotional maturity

• Your timeline is not broken — it’s just different

• Singleness is not a waiting room; it’s a formative season

• Insecurity and immaturity don’t disappear with marriage

• Growth requires honesty, not self-punishment

• You can hold grief and faith at the same time

Melissa Gendreau is the founder of Forward Path with Melissa and a former licensed therapist who now serves as a Christian life purpose and marriage coach. She helps individuals and couples build humble confidence, strengthen relationships, and move forward with clarity, faith, and intention.

Website: MelissaGendreau.com Social Media: @ForwardPathWithMelissa

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Welcome to An Epiphany with Tiffany. I'm your host, Tiffany Kelly, and this podcast is for Christian singles who love Jesus, but feel caught in the tension of faith, desire, and real life.

If you've ever wondered, “Am I behind? Did I miss my chance? What does a full, God-honoring life look like if I'm still single?”—then you're in the right place.

Around here, we talk about the whole experience of singleness: faith and church culture, friendships and community, purpose and calling, emotional health, identity, and yes, dating disappointment. But also, we talk about hope.

Through honest stories, heartfelt conversations, and practical, Christ-centered encouragement, my goal is to help you feel seen, heal from harmful messages, and live a grounded, joyful, Jesus-focused life right now—not just one day if your relationship status changes.

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Join Tiffany in a heartfelt and reflective birthday episode of "An Epiphany with Tiffany," where she shares 35 lessons learned over the past year, blending humor, vulnerability, and profound insights. As she celebrates another trip around the sun, Tiffany takes us on a journey through her personal growth, the chaos of moving multiple times, and the importance of flexibility in life’s unpredictable moments.

In this candid conversation, Tiffany explores themes of control, patience, and the beauty of starting anew, reminding us that growth often comes from uncomfortable experiences. She reflects on the significance of community, the power of rest, and how waiting seasons can be filled with purpose rather than passivity. With each lesson, Tiffany emphasizes the importance of faith, trust in God’s timing, and the grace that accompanies our imperfections. As the episode unfolds, Tiffany reveals exciting changes for the podcast, shifting its focus from solely dating to creating a platform for bold conversations among Christian singles. Her new tagline, "Bold Conversations. Christian Singles Take the Mic," invites listeners to engage in meaningful discussions about faith, struggles, and triumphs in the single life. Don't miss this inspiring episode filled with relatable stories, encouragement, and a sneak peek into what’s next for "An Epiphany with Tiffany." Tune in and discover how growth can be both messy and beautiful, and how you too can embrace the journey of life and love! 1. Reflections on Moving and Growth

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