Have you ever heard your own response and thought, dang, that was cold? In this episode, Coach Gigi Parker shares a personal and painful moment from a frightening drive with her husband, and asks a better question: what happened before I went quiet?

Together we explore why a whisper can be fear instead of refusal, why a reaction is never the whole story, and what accountability actually requires. Featuring two Gigi-isms worth writing down: "If I have to correct the story before we can address the hurt, we haven't reached accountability yet" and "An apology needs somewhere to go."

Grounded in Ephesians 4:26, plus this week's journal prompt: What happened before I went quiet?

Content note: this episode includes a personal account of frightening driving and conflict in a marriage. Please listen with care. This conversation is for education and reflection and does not replace individual professional support. If honesty brings threats, intimidation, or fear, please seek support that takes your safety seriously.

Faith & Focus: A Moment for Your Mind is sponsored by FOCUS: Faith & Mental Health, Inc., a 501(c)(3) nonprofit serving women, children, and families through education, encouragement, and community support.

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Background music: "Be Still and Know," written by Geleta "Gigi" Parker, piano accompaniment by Debary Thompson.

Until next time, beloved, breathe deep, stay prayed up. Healing is holy and safe with us.