All-or-Nothing Thinking: Why We Desperately Want an Answer (Ep. 139)
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All-or-Nothing Thinking: Why We Desperately Want an Answer (Ep. 139)
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We all want answers. But sometimes our desperate need to know—Is this working? Am I lazy? Should I stay or should I go? Am I doing enough?—has less to do with clarity and more to do with our discomfort with uncertainty.
In this episode, we’re talking about all-or-nothing thinking and black-and-white thinking—and the ways it can show up in our lives disguised as discipline, grit, goodness, or simply “knowing what’s right.”
I share some of my own struggle with this as an unapologetically “answers girl,” including the irony of being a social worker trained to see the gray while finding very little room for gray in my own life.
We’ll explore why the “both/and” can feel so uncomfortable, why we often extend more compassion and nuance to other people than we do to ourselves, and how our pursuit of certainty can sometimes keep us from the clarity we’re actually looking for.
Most importantly, we’ll talk about how to approach those all-or-nothing moments with curiosity instead of judgment—and ask better questions when we find ourselves caught between this or that, yes or no, success or failure, keep going or give up.
Because maybe clarity isn't about finally finding the one right answer.
Maybe sometimes, clarity begins when we're willing to sit in the question long enough to discover what is actually true.
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"Autumn Day" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
"Morning" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 Licensehttp://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/