The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy

It’s about the small steps that are completed consistently over time that will create a radical difference.

“Commitment is doing the thing you said you were going to do long after the mood you said it in has left you.” p. 109

Main Takeaways

Responsibility and Ownership

“You hold the power. Everything is up to you. You’re responsible for everything you do or don’t do, and how you respond to what’s done to you.” p. 29

Inertia and Momentum

Objects at rest tend to stay at rest unless acted on by an outside force. Objects in motion tend to stay in motion, unless something stops their momentum.

Newton’s first law of inertia applied to this concept is about making new choices and then building that momentum over time.

Routines and Action Plans

Set yourself up for success ahead of time.

“The key to becoming world class in your endeavors is to build your performance around world-class routines. It can be difficult, even futile, to predict or control what will show up in the middle of your workday. But you can almost always control how your day starts and ends.” p. 102

Short episode for reflecting on where you could be giving yourself a little more credit.

Follow Me On Substack | Something I’m Proud Of

How have you gotten over disappointment?
Short answer: Sometimes you don’t.
Long answer: You learn how to integrate it and manage it by building emotional resilience and mental toughness.

Main Takeaways:
Choose to learn what you can from the experience.
Have radical honesty and acceptance about what went wrong.
Know what’s reasonably within your control and understand the difference between disappointing yourself vs disappointing others.
Move forward.

Whatever we’re doing when it relates to New Year resolutions, let’s operate from self awareness and move with intention towards fulfillment.

When you reclaim your resolutions focusing on self love, everything falls into place naturally.

Self love is intentional self care, leading you towards fulfillment.

Recognize the season you’re in and let go of the need for social validation.

When you decide to move forward, intentionally showing up for yourself every day, the action steps, goals, and accomplishments come into alignment.

Focus on alignment more than the reward and results alone.

When you’re in metamorphosis to becoming a better version of yourself, understand the challenges due to your environment and community, which impact your habits and behaviors.

Stick to the decision.

It’s not a linear process to navigate, so give yourself grace in this journey of personal transformation.

Your future self is waiting.

Follow Me On Substack | Grieving Your Past Self

In this episode I talk about the ways my mindset evolved over time and a few tools that helped me rewire my thinking. I did the mental and emotional work to get out of my self sabotage and internal chaos, and began creating the life I actually wanted to live.

Mental Shift #1: Shame to Self Compassion

Mental Shift #2: Avoidance to Accountability

Mental Shift #3: Fear to Curiosity

Follow Me On Substack | Chaos to Clarity

Sometimes the bravest thing you can do when making a personal transformation in your life is taking that initial step.

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Today as I celebrate three years sober, I reflect on the milestones and the trials that made me stronger. What I didn’t know at the time was that this initial decision would take three initial years of relapsing, self-discovery and relentless effort.

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