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Today’s topic is on ultimatums in a relationship! There are many different ultimatums some are rather extreme while others are the traditional ones we have heard in the past.

Jeremiah 8:15 – We hoped for peach, but no peace came. We hoped for a me of healing but found only terror.

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This week is a topic I love so much…it truly is the heart of the relationship! If you want to learn how to love your partner better, this is your episode! Today we are tapping into: Love Languages!!!

I Corinthians 13:13 – Three things will last forever-faith, hope and love---and the greatest of these is love.

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Surprise your partner with a romantic gesture and post it to your social media and be sure to tag us @allin.ourbusiness on IG. Be sure to tune in next week as we discuss love languages and getting to know your partner’s language.

Proverbs 5:19 – She is a loving deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts satisfy you always. May you always be captivated by her love

· How do you define romance? Intimacy?

o Definition of romance – an emotional attraction or aura belonging to an especially heroic era, adventure or activity. It is the actions and feelings that demonstrate affection, love, and desire between partners. This involves expressing love in a way that is intentional, unmistakable, and deeply caring. This can be in both grand gestures or small everyday acts of affection.

o Definition of intimacy – the state of being intimate; familiarity / something of a personal or private nature

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Do you have family members or friends who are always injecting their opinions into your relationship? If so, that could directly impact your relationship. This is why it is important to establish boundaries in your relationship. Setting healthy boundaries in a relationship involves defining clear limits for how you interact with your partner, including physical, emotional, and social boundaries. It’s the structure or limitations within your relationship. It requires communicating your needs, expectations, and standards while also respecting your partner’s boundaries. The purpose is to ensure balance and trust in relationships.

Proverbs 23:9 – Do not waste your breath on fools, for they will despise the wisest advice.

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Everyone is looking for unconditional love but yet have a list of conditions. I can’t marry or date a person unless they make this, look this way, dress like this, or have these qualities. We hear it all the time. How can you expect unconditional love with a laundry list of conditions? The very same when it comes to expectations. Many people expect so much from their spouse…I mean even qualities or things they don’t possess themselves. People say all the time-I can’t expect me from you!

Matthew 7:2 NLT-For you will be treated as you treat others. The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged.

• Expectations: what you desire to happen or want to happen
• Standards: level of quality and behaviors you will accept or demand

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In today’s society, it’s important to understand relationships have many layers of makeup. Because of those many layers, which include: family, children, work, friends, personal goals, etc... it is very easy for partners to get COMFORTABLE in a relationship!

Ephesians 4:2 – Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love.”

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So when I think of today’s topic: Baggage…I think of the song “bag lady” by Erykah Badu and the image comes to my mind of one person having their hands so full with all this baggage (maybe that’s unforgiveness, hate, resentment, unresolved emotional issues, past hurts, negative experiences, disloyalty, or childhood trauma) that you are carrying all this stuff, it is weighing you down and because it’s so much, you don’t have a free hand to receive the person that is designed for you because your hands are full of baggage from your previous relationships.

Philippians 3:13 - No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead...".

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Today we are discussing one of the most critical elements in any relationship - communication!

I read that communication may be seen as the lifeblood of any relationship.

Ephesians 4:32 - Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you

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