On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Stefanie Parker, top-charting podcast host of She’s All Bach, for a fun catch-up between two close friends. We talk about her new solo era, what led to her professional split from her longtime co-host, and why this next chapter is rooted in growth, not drama.

We also get into some of the biggest Bachelor Nation headlines, from Nick Viall’s alleged treatment of guests to the fallout surrounding Taylor Frankie Paul’s canceled Bachelorette season. We share some gentle thoughts on the latest controversy and ask the question: is Dakota Mortensen actually capable of going off the grid?

We also talk about following your dreams, even with imposter syndrome, and I open up about shooting my shot for Dancing with the Stars.

Such a fun, honest conversation with plenty of tea and a little real-life encouragement mixed in.

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In this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Chris Lancaster to talk about his experience being in the running to become the next Bachelor. He opens up about the intense casting process—from background checks and psychological evaluations to even being asked by producers to cut his hair to fit the show’s aesthetic.

But just as things were gaining momentum, everything shifted. The network pivoted to The Bachelorette with Taylor Frankie Paul, and Chris shares how producers then encouraged him to join her season as a contestant instead.

He was told that going on her season could eventually lead to him becoming the Bachelor—but ultimately, he chose to walk away. For Chris, it came down to authenticity and wanting something real.

We talk about what that decision meant for him, how the experience pushed him to grow, and why it helped clarify what he’s truly looking for in a committed relationship—outside of reality TV.

He also shares advice for anyone considering the process, emphasizing the importance of staying grounded, trusting your instincts, and protecting your heart in an industry that can be incredibly high-pressure

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On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Noah Erb, the inaugural winner of Bachelor Mansion Takeover. And I’ll say it—Bachelor Mansion Takeover is officially the best Bachelor spin-off series. We get into what it was really like for him navigating intense DIY design challenges while carrying the emotional weight of his mother’s terminal illness.

We get into what it was really like for him navigating intense DIY design challenges while carrying the emotional weight of his mother’s illness.

Noah opens up about his journey from working in the ICU to stepping into the high-pressure world of reality TV, and how those experiences shaped the way he handled competition, stress, and vulnerability.

We also talk about grief—how losing his mom impacted him, why he chose to stay in the competition, and how he honored her throughout that experience. It’s a really honest and meaningful conversation.

Of course, we lighten things up too—getting into the behind-the-scenes moments from Bachelor Mansion Takeover, including his headline-making win, flying home with that silver suitcase in hand, and where things currently stand with Dean Bell. I had to ask… is the rivalry still alive? And more importantly—has he been paid yet?

Plus, we talk about what’s next for Noah, including his future goals, the possibility of a home renovation show (yes please), and teaming up with his wife, Abigail Erb on future projects or maybe Dean Bell?

This episode is an intimate look at the intersection of reality TV, resilience, and real-life loss—with a little competition and chaos mixed in—and one I won’t forget anytime soon.

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On this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Chad Kultgen, from Game of Roses, to break down my recent experience on Bachelor Mansion Takeover. Chad reveals his behind-the-scenes role as my “secret strategist,” helping me craft specific speeches and moments during filming to capture producer attention and maximize screen time. We also get into the controversial casting of Taylor Frankie Paul, with Chad sharing his thoughts on where the franchise stands today — why it may be lacking clear creative direction after recent production shakeups, and weighing in on where we go from here casting-wise, including whether we’ll ever actually see Taylor Frankie Paul’s season come to life.

Chad and I dive into the real mechanics of reality TV and why your relationship with producers can matter even more than the actual rules of the game.

And of course, we go a little deeper. We talk about Chad’s interest in metaphysics, his experiences with lucid dreaming, and even his one-of-a-kind political podcast featuring his parents, The Necessary Conversation.

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On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Christopher Stallworth to talk about his unique experience filming not one, but two reality shows alongside Joan Vassos—The Golden Bachelorette and HGTV’s Bachelor Mansion Takeover.

We get into his unexpected casting story, what really goes on behind the scenes, and how he stayed grounded while navigating it all—including the reason he ultimately turned down Bachelor in Paradise. Christopher opens up about leading with authenticity, being a positive force on set, and why being a team player mattered so much to him throughout the experience.

He also drops some real wisdom on finding your “why” and stepping into your purpose, sharing how faith and manifestation have guided his path into the entertainment world. More than anything, this conversation reflects the genuine friendship we built and our shared gratitude for the wild, once-in-a-lifetime opportunities that come from being part of Bachelor Nation.

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Today on After Reality, I’m sitting down with the incredibly talented builder and TV personality, Mitch Oaks—also known as Mitch the Maker!

We recently filmed Bachelor Mansion Takeover together, and let me just say… this man does not mess around when it comes to bringing big ideas to life. From swinging hammers to creating jaw-dropping transformations, Mitch is the real deal—and he’s quickly becoming a fan favorite in the HGTV world.

In this episode, we get into his backstory—how he got started, what it really takes to make it in the building world, and what it’s like filming for HGTV versus reality TV. We also talk about the pressure of seeing your work on screen, whether he actually watches himself back, and yes… we get into his relationship status.

From craftsmanship to camera time, this episode is all about what happens when creativity meets reality TV—and trust me, you’re going to love getting to know Mitch beyond the tools.

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In this episode of After Reality, I’m sharing my heart and my journey on Bachelor Mansion Takeover—the highs, the growing pains, and the moment it all came to an end. From navigating creative differences with my team during the fireplace renovation to finding my voice in a high-pressure environment, this experience truly pushed me in ways I didn’t expect.

I was also showing up and competing while playing hurt most days, which made every challenge that much more personal. Getting a second chance through the redemption twist meant so much to me, especially hearing such kind words from guest judge Nate Berkus. It gave me the confidence to step into my first solo challenge—designing and building a terrace bar that felt like me. Even though that moment marked the end of my time on the show, it was something I’m incredibly proud of.

At the core of it all was my “why”—wanting to win that prize money to build a pool for my kids. That dream carried me through every long day, every tough moment, and every small win along the way.

I’m walking away with so much gratitude. I stayed true to myself, trusted my instincts, and built friendships I’ll cherish long after the cameras stopped rolling. This one means a lot 🤍

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On this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by former Bachelor producer Adam Mansfield, who weighs in on the current state of the franchise, the pressure to evolve, and what today’s audiences are really looking for. We also get into the buzz around Taylor Frankie Paul potentially stepping in as the next Bachelorette—and what that kind of casting could mean for the future of the show.

From there, we go behind the scenes of Adam’s time on The Bachelor, where he shares what it’s really like producing a 24/7 reality show, the emotional connections formed with contestants, and how he mastered the ultimate producer poker face. We also revisit the magic of “Happy Couple” weekends (yes, he was part of making those happen) and what it takes to pull off international filming and travel at that level.

Now a dad and producing for the Food Network, Adam opens up about how his career has evolved and where life has taken him after stepping away from the franchise.

If you’ve ever wondered what’s happening behind the curtain—and what’s next for The Bachelor—this is an episode you don’t want to miss.

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