Every dad has been there. Your child says something disrespectful. Your spouse reacts in a way you didn't expect. Stress builds at work, and before you know it, you're responding out of emotion instead of wisdom. But what if there was a simple framework that could help you slow down, take ownership of your thoughts, and respond in a way that honors God?

In this episode, we're joined by James Lenhoff to unpack the powerful CTFAR method—a practical tool that's helped countless people navigate conflict, parenting, marriage, work, and even financial decisions with greater clarity and self-control. If you've ever wished you could respond more intentionally instead of reacting in the moment, this conversation will give you a framework you'll use for years to come. Links In This Episode Emotion Wheel: https://abrahamswallet.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/07/Emotion-Wheel-1.jpg CTFAR Model Questions: https://abrahamswallet.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/07/Unknown.pdf WealthQuest: https://www.wqcorp.com/ GoodSense: https://goodsensemovement.org/ FreedUp App: https://getfreedup.com/

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• (00:00:00) - How to Get Through a Conflict With Yourself
• (00:00:46) - Take Control of Your Wallet
• (00:01:44) - A Christian Financial Planner on Abraham's Wallet
• (00:03:36) - Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
• (00:11:16) - How to Get Through a Conflict With My Wife
• (00:17:14) - The Real Cost of Blaming Your Partner
• (00:24:46) - Boundaries for Relationships
• (00:30:45) - How to Talk About Abusive Relationships
• (00:33:47) - The Woe and the Money
• (00:41:12) - The Problem of Spending Too Much
• (00:45:07) - How to Get Through Anger Issues in Guys
• (00:48:27) - Share the Emotion Wheel With Others
• (00:51:56) - C2 is a hard verb
• (00:52:14) - Good Sense: What's Going On There?

What if the next great family business wasn't a business at all—but a car? Self-driving vehicles are arriving faster than most people realize, and they may completely change how families think about transportation, income, and stewardship.

In this episode, we explore why autonomous Teslas could become one of the most practical business opportunities available to ordinary families. Imagine a vehicle that can run errands, take Grandma to church, drive the kids to practice, handle airport runs, and potentially earn income while you're at work or asleep. It sounds futuristic, but the future may be closer than you think. Join us as we discuss the opportunities, challenges, and implications of a world where your next employee might be a car.

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• (00:00:00) - How to Manage a Six-Child Household
• (00:00:21) - Abraham's Wallet: Cutting-Edge Technology
• (00:02:18) - Abraham's Wallet Camp
• (00:06:23) - Cars and Small Business
• (00:07:21) - Tesla's Full-Self-Driving Service
• (00:12:24) - Full-Self Driving For One Hour
• (00:15:35) - Robo Taxi: Elon's Big Idea
• (00:21:08) - Tesla's CyberCab
• (00:26:24) - Robot Taxi: The CyberCab
• (00:29:34) - Tesla to Sell Cyber Cabs to Individuals
• (00:30:50) - Imagine Driving Your Child Around In a Robotic Car
• (00:34:56) - Do You Need A Car to Drive?
• (00:37:23) - A Tesla for the Family?
• (00:41:28) - Cyber Cab
• (00:43:28) - Abraham's Wallet: Retreat Announcement

As America nears its 250th anniversary, we're ending this series with a vision worth fighting for. Drawing from George Washington's own words and the biblical promise of every family dwelling safely under their own vine and fig tree, we'll explore the kind of peace, prosperity, and freedom Christian fathers should be building toward.

Because the inheritance we leave isn't just financial—it's the world our children and grandchildren will one day call home. Main Topics Covered Why we engage culture without idolizing politics The biblical vision of every man under his own vine and fig tree What shalom really means and why it matters for families George Washington's repeated use of Micah 4:4 in letters and leadership America's founding ideals vs. today's expanding government and family breakdown How Christian dads can fight for ordered liberty, family strength, and economic freedom Practical ways to teach your kids real history and pray for the nation

AW Bootcamp: Aug 21-23

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• (00:00:00) - America: The End of Abraham's Wallet
• (00:00:58) - Abraham's Wallet: The Third Annual Indiana retreat
• (00:03:27) - America: The Battle for God's People
• (00:04:58) - Israel Midrash: Shalom
• (00:12:09) - George Washington on His Vision for America
• (00:21:47) - Return to the Micah 44 Agenda
• (00:27:34) - A Christian call to civic leadership
• (00:30:41) - God of Our Fathers