Janean Armstrong has spent 28 years in the financial industry, rising from branch manager to C-suite executive overseeing multi-billion-dollar portfolios.

In this episode she tells host Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson the story that inspired her book — a close friend, married to a doctor for 28 years, who discovered she had no bank account, no credit card, and no financial access in her own name. Janean turns that story into a bigger conversation about money, self-worth, and why so many women stay silent about finances even with their closest friends. She also gets honest about her own first marriage, which she admits she entered only to “check a box,” and the very different, financially transparent marriage she built the second time around — including the framework she now teaches: the financial date night.

Dr. Stacii sits down with her cousin, Ambassador Dr. Sharron J. Brown, a survivor of molestation, human trafficking, and incarceration who is now an international ambassador, school founder, and best-selling author of I Found My Voice. Sharron walks through the exact turning points that led her to keep choosing differently, one decision at a time, until she built a different life. The conversation closes with how she recognized real love only after she had already started healing herself.

She has three board certifications, a master's degree in public health, an MD, and millions of people who followed her story on Married to Medicine. But behind every degree and every camera was a girl who grew up alone — caring for her little brother at night while her mother worked, watching her father disappear for months at a time because of substance use disorder, and learning the most dangerous lesson a child can learn: you can only depend on yourself.

In this deeply personal conversation, Dr. Contessa Metcalfe sits down with Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson to talk about what she has never fully talked about on television — the childhood wounds that followed her straight into a 21-year marriage, and the years she spent filing for divorce on a man who never stopped fighting for her.

What you will hear in this episode: the concept of object permanence and why an absent father programs a woman to expect everyone to leave. The moment her mother died in her arms and what she said. How Contessa filed for divorce multiple times — and what finally made her stop running. What therapy actually looked and felt like for a woman who knew all the clinical answers but could not apply them to herself. Why your feelings are not facts. And what it actually means to take off the armor and give love a real chance.

This is not a celebrity interview. This is a conversation between two women who trust each other — and what comes out of that trust is the kind of honesty that changes how you see your own life.

If you have ever talked yourself out of something good because it felt too hard, too risky, or too much — this episode is for you. SUBSCRIBE to A Different Kinda Woman for weekly conversations about healing, love, emotional wholeness, and becoming the woman you were always meant to be.

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