So many of us tell ourselves we'll get support once we feel "ready" - once things calm down, once we've figured it out on our own. In this episode, I'm pushing back on that idea. Readiness isn't something you wait for, it's something that gets built, usually with someone walking beside you. I'm sharing what "not ready" actually looks like (it's rarely what you'd expect), what changes when you stop waiting, and two simple action steps you can take this week - whether or not you ever work with me one-on-one.

LINKS MENTIONED AND MORE

• Gain the support and healing you are longing for and join the Rising Sisterhood membership today and never feel like you’re doing this alone again. http://www.theseparationclub.com/membership
• The brand new healing app is LIVE - download the Rising Sisterhood app today and take some positive steps for your healing starting now: https://www.theseparationclub.com/risingsisterhoodapp
• Join our growing and healing circle of Rising Moon Sisters at one of our transformational retreats. We are waiting for you. Learn more: https://theseparationclub.com/retreats
• Kickstart your healing with the brand new JOY JOURNAL: https://www.theseparationclub.com/the-joy-journal
• I would love to work with you towards your healing, self-discovery and in creating your new life. Working with a coach is a great way to discover your purpose, your path forward while gaining clarity on your beliefs and core values. I have openings in my calendar for some new clients. https://www.theseparationclub.com/workwithme
• You can also set up a discovery call with me. It's free and an opportunity for us to get to know each other. Here is a link to my Calendar so you can book something that is convenient for you: https://calendly.com/elisabethparsons/discovery-call

• Also make sure to download the Free Separation Checklist: https://theseparationclub.com/separation-checklist
• Join the private and free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theseparationclub/
• You can also find me on Instagram @elisabethjoy444 where I share daily inspirations and tips as you navigate your divorce.
• And the brand new Instagram account for The Joy Journal: @thejoyjournal444

Divorce can leave you questioning your judgment, your choices and even your ability to trust yourself again. But self-trust isn’t about knowing exactly what to do or guaranteeing that you’ll never make another mistake.

In this episode, Elisabeth explores how self-trust is slowly worn away, why blaming the woman you once were keeps you stuck, and how small promises can help you rebuild the relationship you have with yourself.

You’ll learn the difference between confidence and self-trust, how to receive advice without surrendering your authority, and why making a mistake doesn’t mean you cannot trust yourself.

This episode completes a three-part journey: imagining life on the other side of divorce, finding clarity when emotions are high, and trusting yourself to build what comes next.

Self-trust is not the promise that life will always go according to plan. It is the promise that whatever happens, you will not abandon yourself.

LINKS MENTIONED AND MORE

• Gain the support and healing you are longing for and join the Rising Sisterhood membership today and never feel like you’re doing this alone again. http://www.theseparationclub.com/membership
• The brand new healing app is LIVE - download the Rising Sisterhood app today and take some positive steps for your healing starting now: https://www.theseparationclub.com/risingsisterhoodapp
• Join our growing and healing circle of Rising Moon Sisters at one of our transformational retreats. We are waiting for you. Learn more: https://theseparationclub.com/retreats
• Kickstart your healing with the brand new JOY JOURNAL: https://www.theseparationclub.com/the-joy-journal
• I would love to work with you towards your healing, self-discovery and in creating your new life. Working with a coach is a great way to discover your purpose, your path forward while gaining clarity on your beliefs and core values. I have openings in my calendar for some new clients. https://www.theseparationclub.com/workwithme
• You can also set up a discovery call with me. It's free and an opportunity for us to get to know each other. Here is a link to my Calendar so you can book something that is convenient for you: https://calendly.com/elisabethparsons/discovery-call
• Also make sure to download the Free Separation Checklist: https://theseparationclub.com/separation-checklist
• Join the private and free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theseparationclub/
• You can also find me on Instagram @elisabethjoy444 where I share daily inspirations and tips as you navigate your divorce.
• And the brand new Instagram account for The Joy Journal: @thejoyjournal444

Divorce asks women to make some of the most important decisions of their lives while experiencing some of the strongest emotions they have ever felt.

You may be trying to make choices about your children, home, finances and future while also grieving, feeling betrayed or dealing with an ex who is financially controlling, creating legal conflict or seemingly moving happily on with someone new.

Of course your emotions are heightened.

In this episode, Elisabeth explores how to honour everything you are feeling while creating enough space to access the clarity and wisdom that are still inside you. Emotional regulation isn’t about calming down, becoming less emotional or quietly accepting unacceptable behaviour. It’s about becoming steady enough to choose your response instead of allowing fear, anger or urgency to choose it for you.

In this episode:

• Why heightened emotions during divorce are completely understandable
• What happens when your nervous system interprets uncertainty as danger
• How to avoid making permanent decisions from the first wave of emotion
• Why emotional regulation does not mean passivity
• How to separate the facts from the frightening story your mind is creating
• Why his happiness, new relationship or apparent lack of remorse should not become the measure of your healing
• Practical ways to find clarity when you have been triggered
• How to make decisions your future self will thank you for

You don’t need to eliminate your emotions before you can trust yourself. Your emotions and your wisdom can exist together. The practice is learning how to honour both while making choices that protect the life you are building.

LINKS MENTIONED AND MORE

• Gain the support and healing you are longing for and join the Rising Sisterhood membership today and never feel like you’re doing this alone again. http://www.theseparationclub.com/membership
• The brand new healing app is LIVE - download the Rising Sisterhood app today and take some positive steps for your healing starting now: https://www.theseparationclub.com/risingsisterhoodapp
• Join our growing and healing circle of Rising Moon Sisters at one of our transformational retreats. We are waiting for you. Learn more: https://theseparationclub.com/retreats
• Kickstart your healing with the brand new JOY JOURNAL: https://www.theseparationclub.com/the-joy-journal
• I would love to work with you towards your healing, self-discovery and in creating your new life. Working with a coach is a great way to discover your purpose, your path forward while gaining clarity on your beliefs and core values. I have openings in my calendar for some new clients. https://www.theseparationclub.com/workwithme
• You can also set up a discovery call with me. It's free and an opportunity for us to get to know each other. Here is a link to my Calendar so you can book something that is convenient for you: https://calendly.com/elisabethparsons/discovery-call
• Also make sure to download the Free Separation Checklist: https://theseparationclub.com/separation-checklist
• Join the private and free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theseparationclub/
• You can also find me on Instagram @elisabethjoy444 where I share daily inspirations and tips as you navigate your divorce.
• And the brand new Instagram account for The Joy Journal: @thejoyjournal444