You’ve had the conversation. You’ve prayed. You’ve researched. You’ve tried to help. And still, your mind keeps coming back to: What else can I do? What am I missing?

When you see your teen struggling, making choices that concern you, pulling away from their faith, or heading in a direction you desperately wish you could change, it’s hard not to feel responsible for making things better. And without realizing it, loving and supporting them can start turning into trying to control an outcome you simply can’t control.

In this episode, I’m sharing something God has been showing me in my own life about the difference between being responsible TO someone and responsible FOR their outcome—and how that distinction can change the way you parent and communicate with your teen.

You’ll learn:

• How concern for your teen can turn into control without you realizing it
• The question that can help you recognize what’s actually yours to do—and what isn’t
• What Proverbs 3:5 taught me about where I’m putting the weight of someone else’s future
• How trusting God can help you communicate with your teen without every conversation becoming about the thing you’re worried about

Trusting God with your teen doesn’t mean passive parenting. You still guide, set boundaries, seek wisdom, get help when it’s needed, and keep showing up. But you don’t have to believe that if you just say the right thing, find the right solution, or parent perfectly enough, you can guarantee the outcome. You can do what God has given you to do and trust Him with what you cannot control.

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I pray this episode blesses you and your family.

~Terri

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