『#73: 回看来路：重新连接父母、家庭与自己 | Looking Back at Where We Come From: Reconnecting with Parents, Family, and Ourselves』のカバーアート

#73: 回看来路：重新连接父母、家庭与自己 | Looking Back at Where We Come From: Reconnecting with Parents, Family, and Ourselves

#73: 回看来路：重新连接父母、家庭与自己 | Looking Back at Where We Come From: Reconnecting with Parents, Family, and Ourselves

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📌 欢迎加入「MEEEI家庭系统成长微信社区」今年2026年七月份开始， 我将在每个月的最后一个周日，荷兰时间上午10:00至12:00（夏令时），北京时间周日下午16:00至18:00举办线上的免费分享、答疑、互动、学习和成长。通过线上ZOOM会议，我会通过各种集体分享和小组互动的模式，带大家一起去探索过去，体验当下、憧憬未来。如果你对加入这个微信社区感兴趣，欢迎通过微信或邮件联系我加入这个免费社区。加入微信社区后，你会在社区里获取所有线上和线下活动的具体信息。我的微信：soest8881533我的邮件：china@meeei.nl86岁的老爸，耳朵越来越聋了。过去几年，我再也无法像从前那样，听他讲那些关于时代、关于人生的故事。那些还没来得及问出口的问题，那些没能真正听完的故事，慢慢成了我心里越来越深的遗憾。直到今年四月，我和老爸开始通过写信建立了更多的沟通。过去几周，在整理这些文字、重新书写父母人生回忆录的过程中，我一次次流泪，也一次次重新理解了父母、家庭，以及“来路”对一个人的意义。这一集，我想和你分享几个深深触动我的领悟：父母的故事，不只是过去那些家庭里的往事、父母的人生、祖辈的经历，并不仅仅是“过去的记忆”。它们在无声地连接我们，也在重新让一个家庭彼此靠近。带着好奇去倾听，会打开一扇新的门如果我们能带着真诚、带着爱、带着不评判的好奇去接近父母，很多从未真正被听见的故事，就会慢慢浮现。而这些故事，也会带我们重新理解自己的人生。回看来路，会慢慢改变一个人当一个人开始重新理解父母、理解家庭、理解自己成长背后的故事时，我们看待人生的方式，也会慢慢发生改变。我们的成长，也会重新影响整个家庭很多时候，我们的学习和成长，不只是帮助自己。它也会慢慢改变我们与父母、伴侣、孩子之间的连接方式，让爱重新开始流动。如果你也曾遗憾，没有真正听过父母的人生故事。不妨轻轻问问自己：“我的心里，有没有一个一直想问父母的问题？”也许，一个问题，就会打开一扇重新连接彼此的门。愿我们，在父母还在的时候，带着温暖和好奇，重新走近他们。愿我们，一起回看来路，重新连接父母、家庭与自己。📌 欢迎加入「MEEEI家庭系统成长微信社区」今年2026年七月份开始， 我将在每个月的最后一个周日，荷兰时间上午10:00至12:00（夏令时），北京时间周日下午16:00至18:00举办线上的免费分享、答疑、互动、学习和成长。通过线上ZOOM会议，我会通过各种集体分享和小组互动的模式，带大家一起去探索过去，体验当下、憧憬未来。如果你对加入这个微信社区感兴趣，欢迎通过微信或邮件联系我加入这个免费社区。加入微信社区后，你会在社区里获取所有线上和线下活动的具体信息。我的微信：soest8881533我的邮件：china@meeei.nlMy father is now 86 years old, and his hearing has been fading more and more.Over the past few years, I’ve realized that I can no longer sit beside him and listen to his stories the way I used to — stories about his life, about our family, about the times he lived through. The questions I never got to ask, and the stories I never fully heard, slowly became one of the deepest regrets in my heart.Then, in April this year, something changed. My father and I began communicating through handwritten letters.Over the past few weeks, while organizing his writings and continuing to work on my parents’ memoir, I found myself crying again and again. Through this process, I began to understand my parents, my family, and the meaning of “where we come from” in a much deeper way.In this episode, I want to share a few reflections that deeply touched me: Our parents’ stories are not just “the past” The stories of our parents, our grandparents, and our family history are not simply memories. They continue to connect us quietly across generations, and they can bring a family closer together again. Listening with curiosity opens a new door When we approach our parents with sincerity, love, and non-judgmental curiosity, stories that were never truly heard before slowly begin to emerge. And through those stories, we often begin to understand our own lives more deeply. Looking back at where we come from can slowly change us When we begin to understand our parents, our family history, and the stories behind our own growth, the way we see life gradually changes as well. Our own growth can also transform our family Very often, our learning and healing do not only help ourselves. They slowly change the way we relate to our ...
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