EPISODE 47: THE SPACE BETWEEN TRUTH AND ACTION

When You Know What You Want… But You’re Not Ready to Do Anything About It Yet

What happens when you finally know what’s true for you…but you’re not ready to change your life around it?

In Episode 47 of The Liberated Lesbian Lounge, Annie M Henderson explores the space between knowing and doing—and how to tell whether you’re genuinely building readiness or waiting for fear to finally give you permission.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• Why knowing what you want doesn’t automatically create the capacity to act on it
• Why readiness does NOT mean the absence of fear
• The difference between preparation and postponement
• How to get specific about what “I’m not ready” actually means
• Why grief can exist alongside a decision that’s right for you
• The particular challenge people-pleasers face when other people aren’t “ready” for their choices
• How to identify what would actually increase your capacity
• A guided readiness inventory you can practice with Annie
• How to stop waiting for the whole life to feel possible and identify your next honest step

A QUESTION TO TAKE WITH YOU:

When I say, “I’m not ready”…

What am I actually waiting for?

Because readiness isn’t always something you wait for.

Sometimes, readiness is something you build.

And you don’t have to be ready for the whole life.

You only have to become ready for the next honest step.

WORK WITH ANNIE

If you’re in the space between knowing something needs to change and figuring out what comes next, there are several ways to get support.

PRIVATE 1:1 COACHING

For individualized support around your patterns, relationships, self-trust, and next honest steps:

Explore 1:1 coaching with Annie

THE LIBERATED LESBIAN MEMBERSHIP

For ongoing connection, practice, and community with women who are also untangling old patterns and becoming more fully themselves:

Learn more at LiberatedLesbian.com

RETREATS

Sometimes what you need is space outside your normal roles and routines—to connect, have fun, breathe, and hear yourself a little more clearly.

See Annie’s upcoming retreats

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