294. Why Do We Keep Trying To Fix People?
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294. Why Do We Keep Trying To Fix People?
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In this episode of Two Pastors and a Mic, Cory and Channock talk about our tendency to fix people, give advice they never asked for, and become more invested in someone’s growth than they are.
They also talk about the deeper things that can be hiding underneath our desire to help. What happens when being needed becomes part of our identity? Are we actually offering something to another person, or are we trying to produce an outcome for them?
00:00 - Welcome to the Podcast
02:18 - Why Do We Feel Responsible for Fixing People?
03:52 - Why Is It So Hard to Watch People Struggle?
06:23 - Learning to Have Fewer Opinions
07:41 - When You Want to Coach Everyone
08:52 - What Happens When People Ignore Your Advice?
09:47 - What Do You Need From Me?
12:05 - Are You More Invested in Their Growth Than They Are?
13:40 - You Can’t Do the Work for Someone Else
15:45 - The Addiction to Being Needed
17:21 - Jesus Didn’t Chase People
19:24 - Jesus Didn’t Need to Be Needed
20:54 - Three Questions Before You Try to Help
21:39 - Stop Giving Unsolicited Advice
24:40 - This Week’s Challenge: Don’t Give Advice
25:10 - You Are Loved