Rule 2: Dreams & goals, know what you want.

Ten years ago I wrote this chapter from the middle of my own reinvention. I'd just walked away from a 13-year career in the travel industry and was building something new from scratch. I had no idea what I was doing, but I knew what I wanted.

Most of the women I work with now have forgotten what they want. They've been wanting things for everyone else for so long that when I ask what THEY want, they can't answer. If that's you, this chapter is for you.

This is where goal setting stops being a corporate exercise and starts being an act of coming back to yourself. The dream worksheets in this chapter still work. They're the same ones I use with clients today.

At the end I share my 2026 reflections on why dreaming is a nervous system function, and why you can't access what you want when you're stuck in survival mode.

The full audiobook is available on all the audiobook platforms if you want to jump ahead, or you can get the paperback here: https://amzn.to/4Aw5F6w and the workbook that goes with it here: https://amzn.to/4hfqg63. The exercises are where the real work happens. The exercises need to be done, not just listened to.

As always, I would love to hear from you, what you get out of each chapter, any insights, any thoughts.

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