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What if discipline wasn’t about control, but about connection and emotional growth? In this episode of 15 Minutes with Dad, we explore how to shift away from the outdated discipline methods many of us experienced—yelling, threats, and physical punishment—and move toward a more intentional, empowering model of fatherhood rooted in supportive communication and emotional resilience.

The word “discipline” comes from “disciple,” meaning one who learns. This episode challenges the traditional view and redefines parenting through a lens of teaching, not punishing. True discipline isn’t about forcing obedience through fear—it’s about helping our children understand their emotions, values, and the real-world impact of their actions.

As fathers, we have the opportunity to break generational trauma and lead with purpose. I share five powerful discipline strategies that have transformed my relationships with both my teenager and toddler:

• Connect before you correct
• Use natural consequences
• Create clear agreements
• Reflect instead of lecture
• Model emotional regulation

These approaches promote family empowerment and teach emotional intelligence. This isn’t about being “soft” on your kids—it’s about leading as a dad who models strength through patience, not punishment.

The goal? To raise emotionally healthy children who make good choices because they understand their values—not because they fear the consequences. Implement just one of these healthy habits this week and experience the shift in your family dynamic.

Listen now, and visit 15minuteswithdad.com/discipline for more tools on mental healing, conscious co-parenting, and raising the next generation with intention and love.

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What gives meaning to all your struggles and triumphs as a father? Purpose. Without it, you're just reacting to life instead of leading it with intention.

In this powerful finale to the first part of our YouTube 2.0 series, we bring together all the elements we've explored – from self-awareness to overcoming adversity – and focus on finding your purpose as both a man and a father. This isn't about abstract philosophies; it's about crafting a clear, actionable vision that transforms your daily interactions with your children and family.

The episode breaks down three fundamental pillars that should guide every father's purpose: self-mastery (becoming the best version of yourself because your kids mirror who you are), relationship mastery (creating deep connections that matter more than career achievements), and legacy building (focusing on the impact you leave, not just material possessions). We then provide a practical five-step roadmap for developing your personal mission statement and vision.

Perhaps most importantly, we challenge the notion that purpose requires dramatic overhauls. Instead, we emphasize how small, consistent actions aligned with your values create lasting change. As Jim Murphy says, "clarity of purpose creates clarity of action" – when you know why you're here, making decisions that reflect your mission becomes natural.

Ready to stop simply going through the motions and start creating the legacy your children deserve? Write your fatherhood mission statement this week, and take the first step toward becoming the father you've always wanted to be. Visit 15minuteswithdad.com for additional tools and resources to support your journey.

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When I discovered my daughter was self-harming, my world tilted on its axis. What followed was a journey through fear, confusion, and ultimately, profound healing. This raw conversation with Mariah marks the first time we've publicly shared our experience navigating teen self-harm together.

We dive deep into how self-harm began for Mariah at just 10 years old while adjusting to a new blended family and school environment. She courageously reveals her feelings of neglect and isolation that led to harmful coping mechanisms, while I share my initial blindness to the warning signs and the gut-wrenching moment of discovery. Together, we challenge the dangerous misconception that self-harm is merely attention-seeking behavior rather than what it truly is – a desperate cry for help from someone drowning in emotions they can't process alone.

Our healing path wasn't linear or simple. We discuss the comprehensive approach that worked for us: daily check-ins featuring highs, lows, and self-affirmations; therapy both in and outside school; music as emotional regulation; and most critically, developing open communication where judgment was replaced with understanding. The vigilance required was extreme – removing sharp objects, monitoring shower time, keeping doors open – but these measures came from a place of fierce protection rather than punishment.

For parents and teens currently walking this difficult road, we offer hard-won wisdom: struggling doesn't mean someone is broken; it means they're still fighting. Healing requires patience, consistency, and creating safe spaces where emotions can be expressed without fear. Though the journey is messy, it's absolutely possible to emerge on the other side with stronger bonds and healthier coping mechanisms. If you're battling similar challenges, know that you're not alone – and that love is always worth showing up for.

If you or someone you know is in crisis, call or text 988, or chat 988Lifeline.org for 24/7, confidential support.

Crisis Text Line: Text “START” to 741-741

LGBT Youth Suicide Hotline: 1-866-4-U-T

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