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Grief can feel heavy enough on its own, then life keeps demanding that you function like nothing happened. I’m Gina Gonzalez, and I’m introducing a practical grief framework to guide your healing journey: The Dual Process Model of Coping.

According to this model, there are two modes of coping: loss-oriented coping and restoration-oriented coping. Loss-oriented coping is the part of grieving that leans into the emotional reality of the death. Whereas restoration-oriented coping is the forward-facing work of rebuilding and creating a “new life” after loss. We also talk honestly about why “balance” is through oscillation; switching back and forth between the two modes can maximize your ability to cope with grief.

You’ll also hear a wide range of concrete coping strategies, from grief counseling and memory making to self-care, identity shifts, new goals, and community support. We highlight Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month and the significance of October 15th to the perinatal loss community.

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