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010 Performing Perfectly in Public. Perishing in Private. With Guest, John Mabry

010 Performing Perfectly in Public. Perishing in Private. With Guest, John Mabry

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Episode SummarySome of the strongest people we know are performing perfectly in public while perishing in private. John Mabry, a self-described comeback extraordinaire, tells his story: a car wreck that took a friend and his leg, a brother lost to an overdose, and an addiction that cost him his marriage and his children’s trust. He shares what brought him back and how he helps others do the same.About John MabryJohn Clint Mabry, is a self-described comeback extraordinaire, a speaker and coach who works with high-influence, high-profile people who are performing perfectly in public while perishing in private. Born and raised in a Christian family in Texas, John graduated from Baylor University, where he was a communications major on an athletic scholarship.A car wreck during his senior year took the life of a friend and led to the amputation of his leg below the knee. John went on to earn a graduate degree in counseling in San Diego, work for the Challenged Athletes Foundation, and serve as a technical consultant and “stump double” on the first TV show about the war in Iraq. His screen credits include Superbad and NCIS.Years of addiction followed, and he lost his marriage, his job, and, for a time, the trust of his three children. Through Celebrate Recovery and a Christ-centered twelve-step group, John found sobriety and rebuilt those relationships. Today he coaches clients through his ninety-day Hero Initiation. You can find him at JohnMabryConnects.com and on Instagram at JohnMabryConnects.Full Episode SummaryMeeting John (0:58)Estranged parents carry sadness and depression that stretch over years. So today we cross-train with someone who has lived through his own long road back. John calls himself a comeback extraordinaire, and he starts with a Texas childhood, a grandfather who was a pastor, and a life that looked perfect through his senior year at Baylor.Seven Seconds (4:14)On the way home from a cruise with friends, a tire blew out and the car rolled. John crawled out, went back in to help, and watched a friend die. He describes the terror, being forgotten on the roadside, and two and a half hours without pain medicine. I connect that moment to the violence many of us feel when a relationship is suddenly severed.The First Comeback (10:48)After fourteen procedures, John chose amputation. Talking with other amputees gave him the confidence to do it, and he walked at graduation six weeks later. Then came San Diego, a counseling degree, and a double life of pills and drinking behind a polished public image.Performing in Public, Perishing in Private (13:55)John worked for the Challenged Athletes Foundation, which has been a blessing to my own family through my son Zion’s Paralympic journey. He also worked in Hollywood as a technical consultant and body double. The facade held until it didn’t.Losing Everything (20:09)John found his brother dead from an overdose, a man who never shared the silence that was killing him. Later John lost his home, wife, kids, and job. A twelve-year-old son who smelled alcohol on his breath and called his mother changed everything. Seeing himself through his child’s eyes sent him to recovery.Rebuilding Trust (26:06)A Navy SEAL friend told John to start with a shower. From there came Celebrate Recovery, a year in a room with nine other men, and doing exactly what the court required. John had to accept that his children were right to draw boundaries, and he leaned on accountability partners instead of walking it alone. He says he had to rebuild trust with himself first.Recovery Groups and Shame (31:24)I share what circles like Celebrate Recovery, Samson Society, and Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families have meant to me. John explains how saying his moral inventory out loud to a stranger loosened shame’s grip. Shame likes the dark, and it keeps coming back like soap scum in the shower.The Hero Initiation (38:06)John closes with his ninety-day program built on four daily practices: a little honesty, exercise, rest, and openness. It begins with a seven-minute daily check-in.Closing Prayer (42:00)After ten seconds of stillness, John prays for estranged families and for anyone who needs to hear that a comeback is possible.Resources MentionedJohnMabryConnects.com and JohnMabryConnects on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTokJohn Clint Mabry on IMDb“Footloose,” Baylor Magazine (2006), a profile of John’s story, published under the name Clint MabryCelebrate Recovery, a Christ-centered twelve-step program for any hurt, habit, or hang-upSamson Society, a recovery fellowship for menAdult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional FamiliesChallenged Athletes FoundationSoberlink, the remote breathalyzer service John used during court-ordered monitoring
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