From NAR Coach Zari Ballard, the author of When Love Is a Lie: Narcissistic Partners & the Pathological Relationship Agenda...

"When we love a toxic person such as a narcissist, we spend much of our time in the relationship rabbit hole and will become quite acclimated. Our eyes adjust to the darkness and our skin becomes just thick enough so that most bullshit rolls off. It is a hole that feels endless...and somewhere between its ominous opening and this infinite endlessness is where our toxic love resides.” (Zari Ballard, Vacancy in the Rabbit Hole)

The bad behaviors of toxic people should never determine our self-worth. Narcissists play the Game of Life by a different set of rules than everyone else, and they count on the fact that you haven’t studied their playbook. This book will help you train your brain to turn the tables on partner narcs and take charge of your life once and for all.

Zari’s long-awaited fifth book about narcissism in relationships provides a road map to recovery for those seeking to lessen the setback of emotional suffering. Vacancy in the Rabbit Hole analyzes the breakup on a personal level and discusses the phases of suffering, trauma bonding, coparenting, and the question of forgiveness. As always, Zari speaks from an experience that listeners who have “been there, done that” will understand and appreciate. If you’re seeking a way out of the madness, this book will take you on a journey that you don’t want to miss.

It’s time to step beyond the borders of suffering after the narcissist and beat these vampires at their own game without even trying. And believe it or not, it’s as simple as changing your perspective.