What if the people who hurt us most were never meant to be avoided—but were souls we chose to meet? In this episode, GiGi Meier sits down with author Kelly O’Hearn for one of the most compassionate and thought-provoking conversations yet, exploring soul connections, past lives, and the stories we tell ourselves about the pain we carry.

Kelly's books—including Whispers in the Forest and Secrets of the Madonna, and the Arcanum series born from tarot, a dark night of the soul, and channeling past lives—follow five souls who encounter one another across lifetimes, including the concept of a "villain soul" whose role may ultimately help another soul grow. Along the way, they explore the karmic cycle of being the mystic, mistress, or muse but never the wife, the difference between historical accuracy and modern storytelling, and why certain people and places feel instantly familiar.

But the episode's biggest takeaway is a powerful truth about trauma: the injustice or betrayal may have happened decades ago, but if we continue carrying it, we're keeping it alive. The person who hurt us may have moved on, forgotten, or even passed away—while we're still holding the pain. Kelly also challenges the easy advice to simply "let go," and reveals why soulmates aren't always romantic and aren't always good.

Kelly's own journey—taking the hardest experiences of her life and transforming them into a life of compassion, purpose, and grace—makes her message all the more powerful.

Tune in for a conversation about releasing what no longer serves you, the souls who burn us down so we can rise stronger, and the uncomfortable truth about who keeps old pain alive.

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