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사랑하는 사람에게 받은 상처 때문에 새로운 관계 맺기를 두려워하는 사람, 직장 상사의 비난과 지적질에 자신감을 잃은 사람, 부모님의 끊임없는 부부싸움에 영향을 받아 타인을 믿지 못하는 사람, 친구의 거절로 인해 인간관계가 조심스러워진 사람, 주변 사람들에게 무시받은 상처 때문에 공격적으로 타인을 대하는 사람…. 우리는 누구나 상처를 받고 상처를 입히며 살아간다. 어린 시절부터 지속된 트라우마부터 인간관계에서 받게 되는 크고 작은 상처까지, 그 종류와 범위는 헤아릴 수 없을 정도다. 하지만 아픔과 상처를 대하는 방식이 모두가 동일한 것은 아니다. 어떤 사람은 그때그때 상처를 잘 정리하고 자신을 들여다보는 계기로 삼아 '성숙한 나'로 나아가지만, 어떤 사람은 상처를 끌어안고 감정적으로 대응하다가 더 큰 상처를 만들어내기도 한다.

Men who want to live with more power, groundedness, and clarity. Men who want to inspire more trust, lust, and devotion from their partner. But this is confusing territory. The modern world tells you that Masculine energy is toxic. And that we’re all the same. That you need to be a Nice Guy that plays it safe. For most men, it is not at all clear HOW to live more from their Masculine core.

At a time when toxic individualism is rending our society at every level, bestselling author and renowned marriage counselor Terrence Real sees how it poisons intimate relationships in his therapy practice, where he works with couples on the brink of disaster. The good news: Warmer, closer, more passionate relationships are possible if you have the right tools. In his transformative new book Us, Real brilliantly observes how our winner-takes-all culture infiltrates families with devastating results.

From the bestselling author of I Will Teach You to Be Rich, go from financial frustration to joy with the the aid of this book about navigating money while in a relationship. Personal finance juggernaut Ramit Sethi’s program addresses the most common money issues in relationships without using boring budgets or restricting plans.

If you never knew disappointment, would you ever grow? If you had never felt loss, could you have compassion for another? Without real heartache, would you ever know the greatness of love? On When the Heart Breaks, David Whyte invites you to join him in an investigation of a question that rests at the center of human experience. With a poet's insight into the landscape of the soul, he offers a deeply moving exploration of how we experience love and loss, and how with resilience and time we can rise again each time we are broken.

Love enters our lives in many forms: friends, family, intimate partners. But all of these relationships are deeply influenced by the love we have for ourselves. If we see our relationships as opportunities to be fully present in our healing and growth, then, Yung Pueblo assures us, we can transform and meet one another with compassion instead of judgment.

The New Rules collects the wisdom Margarita has shared with her followers all over the world as well as new insights - and a bit about Margarita herself - in her unique and inimitable style. Margarita is agony aunt, big sister and best friend rolled into one, and this book is a portable best friend that women can carry with them throughout the day - and throughout life.

「あなたにも第三次モテ期がやって来る」そう断言する著者せにょおる☆（中文表記 瀬如織／英文表記 Senyo-Oru）が贈る、恋と人生に効く脳内改造プログラム。恋愛詐欺師に騙されたくない女性も必聴。

■内容紹介 いいことばかり見る人と、イヤなところばかり見る人がいます。そういう思考癖は、そう簡単に取り除けるものではありません。しかし、日々の修練で、しだいに、あげまん思考になることは可能です。中谷さんに、あげまんへの道を教わってみませんか? ○あげまんは、体で考える。 ○ダンスをすると、あげまんかさげまんかが分かる。 ○ダンドリでガチガチにするのではなく、目の前のことを楽しもう。 ○嬉しいことを具体的に話そう。 ○イヤなことに、目を向けないのがあげまん。 ○あげまんは、いいことにフォーカスを当てる。 ○さげまんは、悪いことを具体的に書く。 ○ごはんを食べた後も、「あれが、おいしかったよね」という話をしよう。 ○映画でも、「おもしろかった」ところを具体的に話そう。 ※本商品は、CDセミナー(「別冊・中谷彰宏」18「愛は、脳を活性化する。」――感じる体と心になるあげまん恋愛術、5,000円、2008年、リブラ・エージェンシー刊)のダイジェスト版です。

★照れるのを乗り越えてやるから、相手の心は動きます。恥ずかしいことを言えるから、相手の心に届きます。照れる、恥ずかしいでは、何も進みません。それを乗り越えてこそ、大人の仕事、大人の恋愛です。相手の心を鷲掴みにする方法、中谷さんに伺いました。★こんな方に有効です。□気持ちが相手に伝わりにくい方。□照れ屋さん。恥ずかしがり屋さん。□「いい人」で終わってしまう方。●「目の前の人を、大切にしよう。」●「万人に『いい人』になると、つまらない人になる。」●「照れることをやるから、相手の心が動く。」●「ダイレクトに伝えるのが、カッコイイ。」●「被害者意識の人は、反省しない。」●「好奇心とリアクションのある人は、モテる。」●「振り回されるのが、恋愛の快感。」 ★何度も聴いて、もっとダイレクトに!

★自分の責任で生きると、品格が生まれる。損得を離れると、人望が身につく。自分の甘えと決別する、中谷流・人格磨き術。●好きを理由に、損ができるのは男性。●損得勘定を超えた仕事をするのが、プロ。●損得勘定の人は、一回損をしたら離れていく。●500年単位で、損得勘定しよう。●辞める会社に、御礼奉公しよう。●夢中になれば、品格が生まれてくる。●品格のない人は、身近な人と戦い始める。 ★何度も聴いて、人格アップ。

Although there are many kinds of love, erotic love has been celebrated in art and poetry as life's most rewarding and exalting experience, worth living and dying for and bringing out the best in ourselves. And yet it has excused, and even been thought to justify, the most reprehensible crimes.

Most of us know someone who, for whatever reason, always seems to cause problems, irritate others, or incite conflict. Often, these people are a part of our daily lives. The truth is that these trouble makers haven't necessarily asked to be this way. Sometimes we need to learn new approaches to deal with people who are harder to get along with or love.

Everyone thrives on love, comfort, and the safety of family, friends, and community. But if you are denied these basic comforts early in life through a lack of physical affection or emotional bonding, you may develop intense fears of abandonment that can last well into adulthood - fears so powerful that they can actually cause you to push people away. If you suffer from fears of abandonment, you may have underlying feelings of anger, shame, fear, anxiety, depression, and grief.

Yes, it truly takes only one partner to transform a relationship! What's more, you do not need your partner to do the work with you or you to get the results you want. This is unlike any other "relationship book" you have ever experienced! Empower yourself with the tools and strategies that really work to create the change you deserve in your relationship!

Lewis Howes grew up as an athlete. He was a two-sport All-American and went on to play football professionally. Howes then transferred his competitive nature from sports to business, building his podcast, The School of Greatness, into a global phenomenon. But his whole identity was built on misguided beliefs about what "masculinity" was: dangerous, false ideas learned from teammates and coaches in locker rooms and stereotypes in the media. Like so many men, Howes grew up to be angry, frustrated, and always chasing something that was never enough.

Steve Harvey can't count the number of impressive women he's met over the years - the many incredible women who can run a business, have three kids, maintain a household in tiptop shape, and chair a church group all at the same time. So when it comes to relationships, why can't these same women figure out what makes men commit? According to Steve, it's because they're asking other women for advice when they should be going directly to the source.

While living in Southern California in the 1990s, Author and Professional Dating Coach Alan Roger Currie earned the nickname, "The King of Verbal Seduction" from one of his former lovers and since then, Currie has gone on to teach many single heterosexual men how to use the power of their voice and their overall conversation skills as a means of creating instantaneous sexual chemistry with women of interest.

★あげまんは、 野放しにする。 中谷流・放置人間関係術。 ★恋愛が苦手な人、それは関係を強要する人。 典型的なのは、いわゆるストーカー。 そこまでいかなくても、相手の自由を束縛したり、 独占しようとする人は少なくありません。 その息苦しさは、早晩、人間関係を破綻させます。 その点、「天才」たちのパートナーは違います。 上手に、相手を「放置」できるのです。 天才は、自分一人では受け入れられない。 天才は、自分一人で独占してはならない。 そういうことを知っているのですね。 天才のパートナーの天性性、中谷さんから教わりました。 ★こんな方に有効です♪ □拘束しがちな方。 □つい常識論を戦わせてしまう方。 □子育て中の方。 ★別ナカ87――7つの学び ○「接触時間が短いほど、幸福度が高い。」 ○「偉人の奥さんは、野放しにできる。」 ○「天才に、社会常識を持ち込んではならない。」 ○「清潔な種が、生き延びる。」 ○「トラブル対応に、男の度量が表れる。」 ○「こうしたら、こうなるよと教えよう。」 ○「女性を大切にすることが、性教育の第一歩。」 ゲスト:久瑠あさ美、奈良巧

Mara Altman, author of the best-selling Kindle Single Sparkle, returns to top comic form to address the problem every woman faces but no woman wants to acknowledge: facial and body hair. Her brave, witty memoir gives readers a rare, honest glimpse into the hidden world of lasers and razors. It begins in childhood, when Altman discovers that hair sometimes grows in unexpected places - and that it's best to remove it immediately, or risk ridicule from 8th-grade girls. It continues into early adulthood, when romantically inclined men make offhand remarks about her fine coating of fur.