welcome to the first guest episode of how sebbie c’s it.

this week i’m joined by one of my very first friends in la — bella gallegos — for a conversation that feels like a sleepover, a group chat, and a collective manifesto all rolled into one.

we talk about the ins & outs of 2026 for the collective, but also get into the real stuff: first kisses, queer dating, biphobia, social media exposure, movies we love, and how pop culture (yes, including the avengers doomsday trailer) shapes the way we see ourselves and the world.

this episode is about growth, grief, boundaries, self-respect, and letting go of what no longer fits — romantically, socially, creatively, and digitally.

in this episode, we get into:

• ​our very first kisses (yes, those stories)
• ​the ins & outs of 2026 for the collective
• ​biphobia in queer spaces & why it still exists
• ​dating men in la and navigating queer identity
• ​social media exposure, trolls, and the “bean soup theory”
• ​talking movies, pop culture, and the avengers doomsday trailer
• ​how media impacts identity, masculinity, and connection
• ​building community instead of burning out
• ​why self-respect is the real trend going into the new year

if you’re rethinking dating, online culture, or what you want your next chapter to look like — this one’s for you.

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