Brigid sits down with Toluwa Hughes, behavioural scientist, two-times TEDx speaker, and founder of Zoah Consultancy, to explore why the manager layer is so often the most overlooked group in any organisation and what L&D can do about it right now.

Toluwa has coached over 4,000 leaders across the UN in East Africa, tech scale-ups, and global enterprises including HSBC, Dell, and Alzheimer's Society.

Her work sits at the intersection of behavioural science and real-world leadership pressure - helping managers stay steady through growth, change, and AI adoption.

In this episode, she breaks down the hidden cost of ignoring middle managers from the two things their role actually demands (translation and emotional regulation) to why high performers are the ones most quietly burning out. She also challenges L&D teams to stop asking managers what training they need, and start asking better questions entirely.

If you work with or support managers, this episode will sharpen how you think about development, wellbeing, and where L&D can have the most impact.

What you'll learn:

1. Why middle managers carry more than any job description acknowledges and why they rarely say so
2. The two types of managerial silence, and how to tell them apart
3. Why 82% of managers step into leadership with no formal training and what that actually costs
4. How mindset, not skills, determines behaviour under pressure
5. The three things L&D already has that are more valuable than budget permission, proximity, and trust
6. Why leadership development and wellbeing must be the same conversation
7. The questions that surface what managers are really carrying

🔗 Connect with Toluwa: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toluwa-oyeleye/

Zoah Consultancy: https://www.zoahconsultancy.co.uk

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