Planning a wedding can feel like a giant to-do list, and one of the biggest questions I get asked is: what should we book first? In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, I’m sharing exactly what to prioritise early in the planning process – and what can definitely wait.

Whether you’re just starting or feeling a bit overwhelmed by the sheer number of decisions, I’ll help you figure out what really matters first and how to pace yourself. Let’s take the pressure off and get your planning timeline working for you!

✨ In this episode, Abby covers:

💒 Why there’s no single “right” order to plan a wedding

📋 What to book first – venues, guest list, catering, and photographers

🕰 The planning elements that can wait until later

🤝 When it’s worth bringing a wedding planner on board

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In this episode of the Your Wedding Unlimited podcast, Abby Lynch shares her top five strategies for getting unstuck when wedding planning starts to feel overwhelming or directionless. Whether you're frozen by too many decisions, stuck in comparison mode, or just mentally drained, this episode is your gentle nudge forward. Abby reminds you that it’s totally normal to feel stuck at times—and that with a few simple mindset resets, you can start moving again with clarity and confidence. 💛

In this episode, Abby covers:

💭 Bringing it back to your original vision and why

🧩 Focusing on one decision or task at a time

🚫 Cutting off the constant flow of inspiration

🗣️ Talking it out with someone who gets it

🌿 Taking a guilt-free break to reset

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In this episode of the Your Wedding Unlimited podcast, Abby Lynch tackles the big question: do you really need a wedding theme? Spoiler alert – yes, but not in the traditional “Star Wars or Disney” sense. Abby unpacks why consistency in your styling choices is key to creating a wedding that feels cohesive, polished, and elevated. She shares practical ways to define your vibe (without ever saying “theme” if that makes you squirm), like choosing three guiding words or creating a mood board. Whether you’re going full Beauty and the Beast or just want “romantic garden party with a modern twist,” this episode is packed with advice to help you stay on track and make intentional choices that wow your guests.

In this episode, Abby covers:

✨ Why the word theme puts people off – and how to think of it differently

🎨 How a clear vibe or aesthetic brings cohesion and a high-end feel

🖼 Tips for choosing and sticking to your wedding vision

👑 Real-life examples of how your styling influences decisions like food, layout and experience

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In this episode of the Your Wedding Unlimited podcast, Abby Lynch dives deeper into how to truly personalise your wedding day. This is Part Two of her personalisation series, focusing on meaningful vows, thoughtful guest touches, and navigating the delicate balance between your dream day and family expectations. Abby shares practical tips and heartfelt advice on making your wedding feel like you, while also creating an experience your guests will remember for all the right reasons.

In this episode:

💌 How to personalise your wedding vows—even if you're nervous about writing or reading them

🎤 Why private vows can be a powerful (and less stressful) alternative

🎁 Sweet and simple guest touches that make everyone feel appreciated

🤝 Balancing your personal vision with family traditions or cultural expectations

🧠 How to communicate your boundaries without causing drama

🫶 The importance of creating moments just for the two of you on the day

🌟 Why the tiniest details can leave the biggest impression

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In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, Abby dives into one of the trickiest parts of wedding planning – the guest list. She shares her best advice for setting boundaries, handling family expectations, and making the whole process less overwhelming. From categorising guests to navigating guilt trips and tricky conversations, this episode is your permission slip to put your needs first. 💌

✨ In this episode, Abby covers:

💡 Why guest lists feel so stressful (and why you're not alone)

💸 The real cost of each guest and how it affects your budget

📋 How to categorise your guest list to make decisions clearer

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Managing pressure from parents, in-laws, and friends

🚫 Why you don’t owe anyone an invite—even if they invited you

🎉 Reframing wedding invites as an honour, not an obligation

🧍‍♀️ The importance of being kind but firm in your boundaries

💖 Why the guest list should reflect your story—not social rules

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In this episode of the Your Wedding Unlimited podcast, Abby Lynch dives into one of her favourite topics—personalising your wedding day! 💕 Abby shares why it’s so important to break free from the cookie-cutter mould and create a celebration that’s unmistakably you.

She walks you through the many ways you can infuse your personality, story, and relationship into every aspect of your wedding—from the ceremony and decor to your guest book and beyond. If you’re dreaming of a wedding that’s fun, heartfelt, and truly reflects who you are as a couple, this episode is for you!

In this episode, Abby covers:

💡 Why personalisation matters so much

💍 Making your ceremony a reflection of your love story

🎨 Creative ways to personalise your decor

📖 Fun alternatives to the traditional guest book

🚫 Letting go of traditions that don’t serve you

🧠 How to brainstorm ideas that feel true to you

🗣️ The benefits of a celebrant-led ceremony

🫶 Why your decisions should prioritise you two

🧩 Using your relationship as the foundation for your day

🌟 Creating a wedding that feels like it was made just for you

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Welcome back to the Your Wedding Unlimited podcast! In this episode, Abby dives into some of the most common wedding traditions—and challenges whether they still make sense. This one’s packed with personal opinions, hot takes, and gentle encouragement to design a wedding day that truly reflects you.

Whether it's the bouquet toss or the dreaded garter removal, Abby explores the "why" behind each tradition and helps you decide if it really deserves a place in your celebration.

In this episode, Abby covers:

💭 Why your wedding day should reflect you, not outdated norms

🌼 The bouquet toss – charming or just… unnecessary?

🩲 Garter removal – why it might be better left in the past

🖐️ Receiving lines – do you really need one?

👥 The truth about plus ones and guest list pressure

📣 The importance of diverse voices during speeches

👗 Breaking away from the "white dress" expectation

🧠 How to check in with your own feelings before following tradition

❤️ Encouragement to plan intentionally and confidently

🎧 If you’ve ever wondered, “Do I have to do that at my wedding?” — this episode is for you.

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In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, Abby Lynch discusses the all-too-common feeling of overwhelm that hits so many couples during wedding planning. If you're spinning out over checklists, group chats, or just feeling the pressure to "get it right"—this one’s for you. Abby shares calm, practical ways to reset, reduce the stress, and reconnect with what actually matters.

You’ll walk away with simple strategies to manage the chaos, regain control, and bring the joy back to planning the day that’s meant to celebrate your love.

✨ In this episode, Abby covers:

🧠 Overwhelm is a normal part of the wedding planning journey

🧘‍♀️ Taking a deep breath and pausing before diving into decisions

❤️ Reconnecting with how you want your day to feel, not just how it looks

📉 Why simplifying your approach can make everything feel more doable

📋 How creating a clear vision helps every other task fall into place

🙋‍♀️ Outsourcing and asking for help (you don’t have to do it all!)

🚫 Setting boundaries with well-meaning but opinionated family and friends

💆‍♀️ Prioritising your mental space, self-care, and rest

🌟 Remembering that this is your wedding—and it should feel exciting, not exhausting!

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