Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussions of stigma, isolation, and parental guilt, which may be sensitive for some listeners.

In this episode of Your Voice Matters, host Asma Jacob speaks with Karen Brennan, a family practitioner, advocate, and mother, about her journey supporting neurodivergent children and families.

Karen shares her personal and professional insights into recognising the signs of a neurodivergent child, navigating diagnoses, and understanding how to best support a neurotypical child.

Together, they explore the power of understanding neurodivergence in children, learning to accept, and holding a safe space for parents within the SEND (Special Educational Needs and Disabilities) community.

Karen also highlights her work supporting children with additional support needs and their families, emphasing the value of community, education, and self-care for parents.

“Parents are not failing and it's not their fault because it's about having the resources, the tools, the energy.”

Key Takeaways from the episode:

• Community and connection can help parents feel seen and supported.

• Recognising and accepting the signs of neurodivergence in children fosters understanding.

• It’s important to hold a non-judgmental space for parents of neurodivergent and neurotypical children.

• Parents of children with additional support need and deserve time for self-care to sustain their wellbeing.

About Karen:

Karen Brennan is a dedicated parenting practitioner and mother of two, including a child recently diagnosed as autistic. Karen is the founder of Cariad ASD & PDA Hub (formerly Pandarama Parent Support Group North Wales) and works as a self-employed trainer with the PDA Society. Through her advocacy, blogging, and online forums, Karen empowers parents and carers navigating neurodivergence with compassion and practical guidance.

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“I reduce demands before an activity so that my anxiety reduces.”

In this episode of Your Voice Matters, Asma Jacob chats with Julia Daunt, a passionate advocate for the neurodivergent community. Julia shares her lived experience with Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and ADHD, offering insights into how she overcame the challenges she faced from childhood and adulthood.

She discusses the lack of early support, the impact of PDA on daily life, and the strategies she has developed to help her succeed. Through her work as an author, blogger, and speaker, Julia raises awareness about PDA and empowers others with practical tools for self-acceptance and support.

Key Takeaways:

• Finding a supportive neurodivergent community can be validating and life-changing.

• ADHD medication helped Julia process her PDA traits and navigate daily challenges.

• Letting go of societal expectations allows for more ease in completing daily tasks.

“I reduce demands before an activity so that my anxiety reduces. When I'm doing whatever it is what I'm doing, my anxiety obviously will increase, but because it was low to start with, it doesn't go above what I can handle, so I don't get to the point of meltdown. And then after, I'll have a period of recovery, so that it goes down again.”

About Julia Daunt:

Julia Daunt is an advocate, author, and public speaker dedicated to raising awareness about PDA and ADHD. As a neurodivergent individual, she shares her experiences to promote understanding, acceptance, and better support systems for others. Through her writing, consulting, and public talks, Julia works to empower individuals and families navigating PDA and neurodivergence.

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“If we don’t take breaks, we burn out. Accept help where you can.”

In this episode of Your Voice Matters, Asma Jacob speaks with Folashade Dan-Oketola, a parent, caregiver, and advocate for the neurodivergent and SEND (Special Educational Needs and Disabilities) community. Folashade shares her journey of parenting an autistic child, highlighting the importance of understanding neurodiversity and embracing flexibility in daily life.

Through her lived experience and advocacy, Folashade discusses the challenges and triumphs of raising a neurodivergent child. She offers practical insights on self-care, finding community support, and focusing on strengths rather than limitations. The conversation also explores her path to further education in Finland and how it has shaped her advocacy work.

Key Takeaways:

• Flexibility matters: Adapting to your child’s needs can make daily life smoother.

• Self-care is essential: Caregivers need to recharge to support their children effectively.

• Community support is life-changing: Finding your tribe helps reduce isolation.

• Acceptance is powerful: Embracing neurodiversity fosters confidence and well-being.

Trigger warning: This episode discusses caregiver burnout and the challenges of navigating stigma.

About Folashade:

Folashade Dan-Oketola is a licensed Early Childhood Caregiver and an advocate for Equity, Diversity, and Inclusion. Currently studying Social Services - Child Protection Services, she is passionate about educating the African community on neurodiversity through knowledge and lived experience.

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