Your nervous system might be the biggest c*ck-block in your love life.

This week’s podcast topic was selected by popular demand!

And for good reason … because if your body doesn’t feel safe, your love life won’t go deep.

You can read the books, say the right lines, plan the perfect dates—

but if your nervous system is in survival mode, it will c*ck-block your connection every time.

In this episode of Love, Uncensored, we break open the truth about what’s really blocking you from love that feels safe, passionate, and alive.

You’ll discover:

🔥 Why love collapses when you lead with fear instead of safety
🔥 How your “wounding” secretly decides who you attract—and why it keeps backfiring
🔥 The #1 pattern that turns lovers into roommates (and how to flip it back into desire)
🔥 Why doing more won’t get you chosen—and the real shift that will
🔥 How to stop sabotaging love and finally experience intimacy that feels like freedom

We unpack what it actually means to live in fear versus love, why the “wounded masculine” leaves too soon while the “wounded feminine” stays too long, and how your unresolved trauma is showing up in your relationships even if you swear you’ve already “healed.”

We break down the science, the spirituality, and the lived experience of what happens when your nervous system is running the show—and how to finally take back control.

Because the truth is, until you master your nervous system, you will never unlock the depth, intimacy, and aliveness your heart is begging for.

Listen now before your body blocks you from the love you deserve.

Enjoy the episode!!

Chapters

01:15 – “Your nervous system is c*ck-blocking your relationship” (what that really means)

05:17 – Wounded Masculine signs: avoidant, non-committal, controlling… or passive

07:18 – Fear vs love energy: why strategies fail without safety

11:36 – The two rules to create real change (or nothing changes)

13:56 – Why the feminine constantly ‘tests’ the men in her life

19:56 – The 3 R’s for healed relationships

23:31 – Feminine shield: single-mom survival & how it blocks receiving

28:06 – How healed men & women show up for each other

30:32 – How we walk each other back to safety when activated

32:13 – Secure functioning: become experts on each other’s nervous system

35:40 – The hope: your nervous system can supercharge intimacy (not block it)

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