You’ve been told to wait until you’re “ready” before dating — but here’s the truth: readiness is a myth. In this episode, I’m breaking down why keeping people at arm’s length only keeps you stuck, and how healing actually shows up when you connect.

I’ll walk you through reflection prompts that reveal what you need right now, and share practical tips for dating without losing yourself. This isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being honest. Because love doesn’t wait for you to be ready. It waits for you to be real.

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We don’t just date — we audition.
We perform for love, approval, and safety.
But performance doesn’t lead to intimacy. It leads to exhaustion.

In this episode, I break down the psychology behind why we perform in dating — and what it’s costing us. From emotional labor to misaligned connections, we unpack the real reason dating feels so hard.

Then we shift gears:
You’ll get a coaching framework to stop performing and start connecting.
You’ll learn how to date with clarity, emotional fluency, and self-respect.
And you’ll walk away with prompts, somatic cues, and a closing story that hits deep.

If you’re ready to stop rehearsing and start resonating — this one’s for you.

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The first month of dating feels electric — but is it real?

In this episode, Joey Francess breaks down why the first 30 days aren’t about falling in love — they’re about staying grounded. From chemistry confusion to emotional spiraling, self-abandonment to pacing, this is your masterclass in dating with clarity, not fantasy.

You’ll learn:
– Why chemistry isn’t clarity
– How to stop spiraling after one good date
– What emotional pacing actually looks like
– The power of walking away early — without guilt

Whether you’re newly single or deep in the dating pool, this episode will help you protect your peace, honor your standards, and stop calling it love when it’s just anticipation.

🎧 Listen now and come back to yourself.

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