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We challenge the quiet norm of “sucky sex” in marriage and lay out why God designs sex for intimacy, connection, and real enjoyment without shame. We share our own healing journey from trauma, body insecurity, and bad beliefs to a healthier sex life built on safety, communication, and mutual pleasure.\n\n• why many married couples settle for frustration and distance\n• God’s design for sex: procreation, intimacy and enjoyment\n• renewing the mind after sexual abuse, shame and negative beliefs\n• body confidence through pregnancy changes, cancer and surgery recovery\n• facing trauma triggers and retraining the body to experience safe touch\n• rejecting duty-only sex and choosing mutual pleasure and curiosity\n• communication that gathers “intel” without ego or judgment\n• why sexlessness fuels disconnection, resentment and temptation\n• practical tools: talk outside the bedroom, build emotional intimacy daily, remove shame, protect boundaries and create healthy rhythms\n\nWe want to hear from you on this one. Comment where your relationship is and questions that you might have. We’ll do our best to get to those at some point.\nSend us an email. If you’re a social media person, tag us, let us know.

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