Physician assistant, intimacy educator, and podcast host Jordan D’Nelle joins me on the show for a bold, honest, no-sugarcoating conversation about casual sex, casual relationships, and how to actually enjoy them without losing yourself. From defining what casual really means to calling out the double standards women still face, we get into the real mechanics of having sex for pleasure without shame, confusion, or emotional burnout. We talk about why intention matters, how assumptions wreck the dynamic, and why self-respect is the sexiest boundary you can have.

We talk about:

• How to define casual sex in a way that centres women’s pleasure, agency, and desire

• Knowing your intentions before you get naked and why it changes everything

• Setting boundaries around overnights, cuddling, kissing, communication, and aftercare

• Knowing the red flags, green flags, and why chemistry makes us ignore what we should not

• Keeping yourself safe from STI’s

• How to stop chasing approval and start choosing yourself

Listen in for a real, unfiltered conversation that gives you permission to enjoy casual sex with confidence, self-respect, and zero shame.

Connect with Jordan D’Nelle

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordandnelle/

Jordan’s Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/thevvvpodcast/

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