You keep waiting for him to choose you — but if we're honest, the ache isn't really about him. It's about who you've let decide whether you're enough.

In this episode, we're getting honest about why you keep staying available to emotionally unavailable men, why that pattern goes back further than this relationship, and why God — not his mood, his timeline, or whether he texts back — was always meant to be the one who defines your worth.

We'll talk about:

• Why "waiting for him to choose you" actually means closing yourself off to everyone and everything else
• Why emotionally unavailable men can feel like chemistry
• Where this pattern really comes from
• Why you've made him the judge of your worth, and why that was never his job to hold
• What it looks like, practically, to let God be your source instead

If this episode speaks to you, leave a review and share it with a friend who needs to hear it too — it genuinely helps this show reach more women going through the same thing.

And if you're ready to actually do this work — not just listen to an episode about it, but sit down and rebuild what you believe about who you are, what you're worthy of in love, and what you're worthy of receiving — that's exactly what Anchored is for. Link is HERE

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