Is your gymnast constantly battling self-doubt? Does she struggle to believe in herself before a new skill, competition, or the college recruiting process?

In this episode, Coach Stacie Roman and Coach Ali Havel explain why positive thinking isn't enough when your gymnast doesn't truly believe she's capable. They dive into the hidden beliefs that shape confidence, why "just think positive" often backfires, and how identity—not talent—is often the biggest obstacle holding athletes back.

If your gymnast struggles with fear, perfectionism, mental blocks, competition anxiety, or recruiting confidence, this conversation will help you understand what's really happening beneath the surface.

Confidence isn't created by repeating positive affirmations—it's built by changing the beliefs underneath them.

Stacie and Ali explore why gymnasts often feel trapped in cycles of self-doubt, despite trying to stay positive. They discuss how deep-rooted beliefs like "I'm not good enough" influence every thought, emotion, and action, whether it's learning new skills, competing, or reaching out to college coaches.

They also unpack how girls are often taught to downplay their strengths, why that makes confidence harder to develop, and how parents can help their gymnast build genuine self-belief without comparing herself to others.

00:00 – Why gymnasts struggle to think positively
02:20 – The truth about positive thinking and the Think-Feel-Do model
03:30 – How identity and beliefs shape performance
04:45 – The emotional challenges of mental blocks and recruiting
08:00 – Why recruiting requires confidence before results exist
10:15 – The hidden belief: "I'm not good enough"
13:00 – Why girls often wait for proof before believing in themselves
15:30 – Confidence vs. arrogance: breaking the myth
18:10 – How parents can model healthy self-belief
21:40 – Helping your gymnast build confidence without comparison

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