We’ve all been told the lie that time heals all wounds, but if you are carrying a deep emotional wound, you know that simply letting days pass doesn’t stop the pain. After losing her three children and her husband, Dr. B learned firsthand that profound trauma doesn't heal itself—and ignoring it or letting negative self-talk take over only deepens the injury.

In this episode, Dr. B explores how to truly process grief, why the traditional "Five Stages of Grief" model may actually be holding you back, and how to separate clean grief from the trauma, guilt, and anxiety that often become enmeshed with it.

In This Episode:

• Debunking the Time Myth: Why passive waiting doesn't resolve deep emotional wounds
• Rethinking the Five Stages: Moving beyond rigid grief models to personalized healing
• Separating Grief from Trauma: Disentangling natural sorrow from guilt, anxiety, and overthinking
• Organizing Your Thoughts: Practical strategies to build self-agency and honor your story

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About Your Host: Dr. Cristi Bundukamara (Ed.D, PMHNP-BC) is a Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with a Doctorate in Healthcare Education. Having navigated profound personal trials, Dr. B created the Mentally STRONG Method to help individuals process trauma, manage grief, and build lasting mental resilience.

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