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What happens when good biblical teaching gets mixed with fear, shame, and legalism? In this episode of Ask A Pastor, we explore the important difference between biblical purity and purity culture—and why that distinction matters.

The Bible teaches that sexuality is God's good and beautiful design, created to be enjoyed within the covenant of marriage. Yet many people have experienced messages that left them feeling ashamed, condemned, or defined by their past rather than by God's grace. Together, we'll examine what Scripture actually says about sexual purity, holiness, forgiveness, identity, and healing.

We'll discuss why sex is a sacred gift—not something dirty or shameful—how the gospel offers hope to every sinner, why victims of abuse should never carry false shame, and how God's commands are designed to protect rather than restrict us. Most importantly, we'll discover that our identity is not found in our relationship status, sexual history, or ability to keep rules, but in Jesus Christ.

Whether you've been hurt by purity culture, are wrestling with questions about biblical sexuality, or simply want a clearer understanding of God's heart, this conversation points us back to the perfect balance of grace and truth that Jesus demonstrated.

Join us as we unpack how biblical purity isn't about earning God's love—it's about responding to the love and grace we've already received through Jesus Christ.

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