Why Getting Out of Debt Feels So Hard (And It’s Not Your Budget)

Most people think financial mastery is about numbers, spreadsheets, and strict budgets. But what if the real key to lasting financial transformation lies in confidence, alignment, and forgiveness?

In this powerful episode of Financial Mastery Simplified, Jacqueline Crider is joined by confidence coach and author Brandon Foster to explore how internal certainty—not just external strategy—leads to aligned, empowered financial decisions. They go deep on topics rarely talked about in traditional finance conversations: shame, belief systems, self-judgment, and how our brains are wired to either focus on fear or possibility.

Whether you're stuck in a debt cycle, feeling behind financially, or just tired of trying to fit into one-size-fits-all money advice, this conversation will shift how you see your finances—and yourself.

🎯 IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

Why self-doubt and societal pressure sabotage your financial decisions

How to use debt as a tool, not a source of shame

The power of belief and how the Reticular Activating System (RAS) affects your financial outcomes

Why alignment matters more than capability in achieving success

How forgiveness (of yourself and your financial past) creates space for transformation

Why Jacqueline Crider rejects "anti-Dave Ramsey" shame-based advice in favor of personalized money mastery

The importance of asking better questions to gain financial clarity and peace

⏱️ CHAPTERS:

00:00 – Meet Brandon Foster: Confidence Coach & Author

02:00 – Defining Financial Mastery Beyond the Budget

05:45 – Debt as a Tool, Not a Problem

08:10 – How Your Brain Filters Financial Beliefs (RAS Explained)

14:00 – Financial Alignment: The Missing Link to Success

17:56 – Faith, Clarity & the Right Questions

22:00 – Why One-Size-Fits-All Financial Advice Fails

28:06 – Insecurity, Shame & the Power of Asking for Help

34:06 – Forgiveness, Detachment & Moving Forward

42:33 – Final Thoughts + Resources

Contact Details:

📩 Guest: Brandon Foster

📧 Email: brandon@brandonrfoster.com

🏢 Company: Author of Confident AF: Unleash Your Inner Badass

🌐 Website: https://brandonrfoster.com

📞 Phone: 407-697-1325

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