Keywords:

LGBTQ, Coming out later in life, Societal expectations, Good woman myth, self-sacrifice vs. Self-Care, Permission to change, Guilt and shame, Female liberation, Reclaiming desire, Self-worth, Breaking rules, Authenticity, Women’s empowerment, Women's liberation, Unpacking and Unlearning, Healing from oppression, Marital Duty, Self-betrayal, Grace, Self-compassion, Hetero Patriarchy

Summary:

In this honest, soul-baring episode, Samantha Fox unpacks the deep, often-unspoken burdens that women carry when it comes to living “the right way.” Drawing from candid conversations with clients and her own journey, Samantha shines a light on how societal and religious expectations pressure women to stay in unfulfilling marriages, deny their desires, and measure their worth by self-sacrifice.
She explores the emotional weight of believing you are “owed” something for years of rule-following, and how guilt and shame creep in when women dare to imagine another life beyond the confines of prescribed roles.

With compassion and radical permission, Samantha invites listeners to name the rules they’ve followed, feel what arises, and notice where duty has overtaken self. She shares stories from the BiLife community—revealing a collective “me too” moment that uncovers how many women dream of freedom, only to feel shame for wishing things could change. Sam reminds us: these feelings are not faults, but signals from souls hungry for liberation.

The episode ends with a warm, welcoming offer for listeners to join the journey: to unlearn, unbox, and reclaim their right to live authentically—supported by Sam, the BiLife community, and the healing power of shared truth.