Tony and Dr. Lisa explore why good, committed people often find themselves alone despite their qualities and morals. This episode dives into the complexities of compatibility, timing, and self-awareness in the pursuit of love.

Timestamps:

00:37 - Introducing the question: Why or are good people alone?
0:56 - Defining what makes someone "good" and why that doesn't guarantee relationship success
1:54 - The difference between being a good person and being a good partner
2:24 - The impact of compatibility versus morals and values
4:16 - The importance of alignment in values and emotional needs
5:10 - Timing and healing: Why being ready matters
6:35 - The role of non-negotiables and avoiding the wrong choices
7:58 - Nurturing tendencies, people-pleasing, and attracting the wrong people
8:58 - The challenge of being emotionally unavailable or hard to love
10:37 - Recognizing and addressing personal walls and guardrails
12:30 - Self-reflection after past relationships and setting realistic expectations
14:45 - The changed dating landscape after or 40 and bringing past habits into new relationships
16:09 - Characteristics that differentiate "choosable" partners—communication, growth, emotional availability
18:28 - The importance of self-awareness and willingness to grow
20:23 - Are you unknowingly putting up barriers that keep you single?
21:16 - Summing up: Good people aren't alone because they are unworthy, but because love requires more—timing, vulnerability, alignment
22:24 - Final encouragement to take stock, work on barriers, and open up to love
23:19 - Announcement: A 6-week experience to help women or create their next chapter in love, starting soon
Resources & Links:

• Saying Yes Again Website
• Six-Week Love Building Program (details on website)

Remember, love is about alignment and timing, not just goodness. Reflect on your barriers, or be honest with yourself, and open to growth for the love you deserve.