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Do you ever look at your spouse in public and think, "I love you, but please pretend you don't know me right now"?

This week on We're Doing It!, Sofia and Albert dive into the deeply relatable, slightly gross, and hilarious boundaries that collapse once you’ve been married long enough.

From accidentally spending 30 entire minutes dissecting the mechanics of passing gas (and why Albert thinks farts are an inherited genetic trait), to navigating the unwritten rules of marital body boundaries—we are laying it all out on the table.

In this episode, we talk about:

• The Fart Boundary: How long is too long to hold it in front of your partner, why Sofia used a second-date car fart as an ultimate litmus test, and the courtesy (or shame) of stepping outside to let one rip.
• Grown-Up Fashion Crimes: Why men should never comment negatively on their wife’s style, and how dressing down in public tests your partner's patience.
• Listener Mailbag: A hilarious listener write-in about the ultimate morning-after deception—thinking your spouse is in the kitchen cleaning up late-night snack dishes, only to wake up and find them all piled in the sink!
• Reddit Advice Segment: We read an infuriating post from a wife whose husband constantly misremembers facts, underplays her major life achievements, and accidentally makes her look like a liar to everyone they know.

Plus, we talk about Gen Alpha slang, classroom fart trauma from 5th grade, and why we’re building a community for real married people who just want to laugh at the absurdity of daily life.

Reddit Story: How do I get my [26F] husband [26M] to stop embarrassing me?

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🎙️ ABOUT THE SHOW We’re Doing It is a weekly, lighthearted look at the beautiful chaos of long-term marriage, parenting, and navigating life together. Hosted by Sofia (spunky wife) and Albert (the old soul), we’re here to read Reddit stories, air our grievances, and remind you that we are all on the same boat. New episodes drop every Monday!

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