Before you even get out of bed in the morning, something has usually already tried to tell you who you are. Maybe it's your phone lighting up before your eyes adjust to the room. Maybe it's a memory or comparison you can't quite shake. Maybe it's just the mirror. Most of us never stop to ask which of those voices actually gets to decide who we are, and that question sits underneath a lot of the exhaustion, comparison, and quiet confusion so many of us carry, especially as gender and sexuality get tied more and more tightly to personal identity.

In this message, part of our Questions and Answers series on finding truth in God's Word, we open Titus chapter 3 and ask what Scripture actually says about where identity comes from. Paul tells a young pastor named Titus that God saved us "not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according to his own mercy" (Titus 3:5), and that through Jesus we "become heirs according to the hope of eternal life" (Titus 3:7). Your identity is given to you, not taken, inherited, not declared.

We also look honestly at what the research shows about culture's current approach to gender and sexual identity. Statistics Canada's most recent data found that 27 percent of 2SLGBTQ+ youth met the criteria for a major depressive episode in the past year, compared to 11 percent of their peers, and 25 percent reported thoughts of suicide, compared to 5 percent, numbers too serious for any of us to look away from. Then we walk through a simple picture called the Identity Circle that shows two completely different paths, one built on status and self-determination, and one built on what God has already given.

If you're wrestling with who gets to define you, or you love someone who is, I hope this gives you something solid to stand on, truth and grace held together. Watch the full message above, and if it's helpful, consider subscribing so you don't miss what's ahead in this series. I'd love to hear your reflections or questions in the comments below. You can find more teaching and resources anytime at LeadBiblically.com.

0:00 Who Decides Who You Are?
3:31 What Titus 3 Says About Identity
7:44 The Data Behind Culture's Story
25:55 The Identity Circle, Two Paths
34:11 The Gospel and a Closing Prayer
38:52 Closing Thoughts and What's Next

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