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When your Partner Drinks... Couples Therapist Zach Brittle

When your Partner Drinks... Couples Therapist Zach Brittle

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 My guest this week is couples therapist Zach Brittle who is based in Seattle I was able to pick his brain about that very common question we hear from some of our members – How can I quit when my partner drinks? In this episode:- Zach's drinking escalated during COVID lockdown—he felt depressed and family relationships were under strain.He reached that point that many of us get to – his “not this" moment as we call it in Tribe SoberHe approached a sober friend, Dave, who became his sponsor and helped him to work the 12 stepsHe only attended a few in-person AA meetings but actually found a South African online meeting that became his home group – so he has a soft spot for us here in SAHe quit alcohol quickly and without too much trouble, but deeper emotional recovery took much longer.Zach stressed the difference between quitting drinking and being sober.His marriage had involved heavy shared drinking and his wife had been his drinking buddyBut after he got sober, his wife began to drink more and had her own recovery journey to tackleTheir 15-year-old daughter also “spun out” as the family system recalibratedFamily members are now all healthy and connectedI loved Zach's analogy as a family being like a child mobile – hold one piece steady and the other pieces wobble – how trueZach had some great advice for partners struggling with a drinker who won’t change: Take care of yourself first — get grounded and stable.Build your “healthy place” and invite your partner into it.You can’t decide their behaviour, but you can decide what works for you.Early sobriety is fragile — ignore comments like “you’re boring.” Focus on your own survival. Zach's Top Benefits of Sobriety Feels like an adult for the first time in his life.Sleep transformed — falls asleep naturally, sleeps through, wakes refreshed.Clear mind & emotional stability — no hedging, hiding, or dodging.Better marriage — calmer, more intimate, more predictable.Massive financial savings — used to spend ~$12k/year on bar tabs. Advice for Anyone Struggling Ask yourself: “Am I ready?”If yes, do the work: find community, a sponsor, a meeting, a book, a mentor.The work isn’t quitting alcohol — it’s understanding yourself and building emotional sobriety. Zach’s Podcast & Work Hosts Marriage Therapy Radio — weekly episodes with real couples.Has published books and has a new one coming in 2027 on relational recovery.Works mostly in person in Seattle but does some online work.Zach Brittle is his website More Info Tribe Sober subscription membership – you can join up HERE. To access our website, click HERE.If you would like a free copy of our “Annual Tracker” or our e-book 66 Days to Sobriety, please email janet@tribesober.com.If you would like to come to our Saturday afternoon Zoom Cafe as a guest and meet our community, just email janet@tribesober.com.to join our mailing list click HERE Episode Sponsor This episode is sponsored by the Tribe Sober Membership Program. If you want to change your relationship with alcohol then sign up today Read more about our program and subscribe HERE Help us to Spread the Word! We made this podcast so that we can reach more people who need our help. Please subscribe and share. If you enjoyed the podcast, then please leave us a 5-star review on Apple podcasts. Take a screenshot of your review, and DM it to Tribe Sober’s Instagram page – see PS below for instructions. We’ll send you something special to say thank you! We release a podcast episode every Saturday morning. You can follow Tribe Sober on Facebook, Twitter, TikTok and Instagram. You can join our private Facebook group HERE. PS: How to Leave a Rating/Review in Apple Podcasts (on an iOS Device) Open the Podcasts app. EASY.Choose “Search” from the bottom row of icons and enter the name of the show (e.g. Recover Like a Mother) into the search field.Select the show under Shows (not under Episodes).Scroll down past the first few episodes until you see Ratings & Reviews.Click Write a Review underneath the displayed reviews from other listeners. You’ll then have the option to rate the show on a 5-star scale and write a review (you can rate without writing too but it’s always good to read your experience).
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