Sarah Kate Ellis has spent more than a decade as President and CEO of GLAAD, the nation's largest LGBTQ media advocacy organization. She's a TIME 100 honoree. She's testified before Congress. She's had two audiences with Pope Francis.

She's also a mom of two teenagers.

In this conversation, Dr. Sheryl and Sarah Kate get into what parents actually need to know — not the policy, not the politics, but the real stuff. What does it mean when your kid starts watching shows with queer characters? What do you say when they come to you? What do you do when you already said the wrong thing?

Sarah Kate's answer to almost all of it: love out loud, and leave room for exploration. Kids are watching everything — your reactions to the neighbor who just came out, the stranger at the store, the character in the movie. They're taking notes.

You don't have to have the perfect words. You just have to stay close.

Topics covered:

• Why kids test the waters before they ever come out to you — and what to do in those moments
• The terminology parents trip on (and what "queer" actually means)
• What to do when you've already had a bad reaction
• What trans kids actually need from their parents (Sarah Kate's left-handedness analogy is one of the best things in this episode)
• Whether to celebrate when your kid comes out — and how to do it right

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