In this conversation, Mati, Tahj & Jill discuss their experiences as women of colour living in Australia, focusing on the current climate of unrest related to race and anti immigration protests. They share personal feelings of heaviness and anger in response to anti-immigration rallies and reflect on their identities as proud migrants who have contributed positively to the country. The discussion also touches on the challenges of raising children in a society where they may face discrimination, and the importance of building a supportive community that fosters resilience and cultural identity.TakeawaysWe need to see more representation in media.The feeling of unrest is palpable in Australia.Processing emotions around race is essential.Proud migrants contribute significantly to society.Anti-immigration sentiments can be deeply offensive.Belonging is a crucial aspect of identity.Raising resilient children is a priority for parents.Community support is vital for navigating challenges.Conversations about race should be ongoing.Hope and resilience can emerge from difficult experiences.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Community01:19 Feeling of Unrest in Australia03:03 Processing Emotions and Experiences06:21 Reflections on Race and Identity09:59 Confronting Anti-Immigration Sentiments12:46 Belonging and Cultural Identity16:00 Raising Resilient Children24:16 Building a Supportive Community

In this engaging conversation, Mati, Tahj and Jill share personal stories about how they met their partners, the cultural expectations surrounding marriage, and the adjustments that come with married life. The discussion highlights the journey of love, the reality of marriage, and the growth that comes from shared experiences. Ultimately, they reflect on the importance of being intentional in relationships and the beauty of love in all its forms.

Sound bites

"We just lived our lives!"

"It was an incredible high."

"We're in the thick of it."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates

02:58 Sharing Highs and Lows

06:01 Travel Stories and Adventures

09:00 The Golf Dilemma

12:04 How We Met Our Partners

14:58 Navigating Relationships and Connections

24:42 Summer Love to Lifelong Commitment

27:15 Recognizing the One: Signs of True Love

30:27 Navigating Long-Term Relationships

33:11 Adjusting to Married Life: Surprises and Challenges

36:47 Cultural Expectations in Marriage

39:12 Communication Styles and Conflict Resolution

45:15 The Evolution of Love: Stages of Relationships

In this episode of 'What Left the Group Chat', Mati, Tahj and Jill discuss their personal experiences as Black women raising children in a predominantly white society. They share highs and lows from their week, touching on the challenges of parenting, particularly in relation to cultural identity and racial dynamics. The conversation delves into their pregnancy and birth experiences, childcare challenges, and the importance of addressing racial issues in schools. They emphasise the need for open dialogue and systemic change in education to better support children of colour.Chapters00:00 Introduction to What left the group chat and Its Purpose01:17 Highs, Lows, and Buffaloes: Personal Updates15:45 Raising Black Children in a Predominantly White Society16:09 Pregnancy Experiences: A Comparative Discussion24:04 Navigating Pregnancy Challenges27:32 Experiencing Loss and Support in Healthcare31:40 Childcare Experiences and Racial Awareness34:47 Schooling and Racial Identity40:31 Addressing Racial Issues in Education

In this engaging conversation, Mati, Tahj and Jill explore various themes surrounding beauty standards, personal journeys, and cultural identity. They share personal anecdotes about family, reality TV, and the impact of community on self-perception. The discussion delves into the evolution of beauty standards, the significance of hair in identity, and reflections on aging and body image. The ladies emphasise the importance of representation and the influence of cultural backgrounds on self-image, creating a rich dialogue.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Weekly Check-In03:02 Family Dynamics and Unexpected Changes05:55 Reality TV Obsession: Love Island Discussion09:01 Exploring Beauty Standards and Personal Journeys12:02 Cultural Influences on Beauty Perception15:03 Experiences of Bullying and Identity17:58 Finding Community and Acceptance21:02 Navigating Identity in Diverse Spaces24:10 The Power of Community and Heritage26:50 Embracing Femininity and Identity32:09 The Struggle with Self-Image36:22 Aging and Body Image44:51 The Relationship with Hair and Identity

This week, Mati, Tahj, and Jill dive into showing up authentically at work, with a focus on the unique challenges Black women face in professional settings. They talk about navigating code switching, staying true to themselves, and the ways that culture, hair, and appearance come into play in the workplace. It’s a real and insightful conversation about balancing professionalism with authenticity.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Catching Up

03:00 Highs, Lows, and Buffaloes: Personal Updates

05:59 Navigating Motherhood

08:57 Career Break and Self-Discovery

11:56 Hair Care and Cultural Expectations

17:51 Authenticity in the J.O.B

24:01 Code Switching and Identity

35:55 Current Affairs and Relationship Dynamics