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In this episode, I sit down with certified sexologist and intimacy coach Mandy Hart for an unfiltered look at what men rarely admit out loud. Drawing from her time on OnlyFans, her clinical work, and her deep observations of men on Reddit, Mandy and I dive into male loneliness, sexual shame, and the pressure surrounding penis size and body image.

This conversation gives a raw and compassionate view of modern masculinity and the emotional needs men often hide.

Learn more about Mandy’s work at harts-desire.com.

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