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Read the essay in my Substack series, What He’s Thinking:
The Fantasy He’d Never Admit to His Wife

In this episode, I open the door on a truth most people avoid. Why so many men hide their deepest fantasies from their partners, yet feel safer sharing them privately and anonymously elsewhere. What began as a TikTok conversation with a married woman quickly revealed deeper patterns around fear of judgment, emotional risk, and the quiet ways a man’s identity feels threatened when his desires do not align with who he believes he is allowed to be.

Drawing from my experience in the adult industry, I’ve seen how often adult spaces become the only safe outlet for these hidden parts of men’s inner worlds. This episode goes beyond fantasy and into secrecy, emotional safety, and what changes when people finally feel safe enough to be honest.

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