You spend an hour planning, shopping, prepping, and cooking — and then your picky eater takes one look at the plate and refuses to touch it. Sound familiar? You're not alone, and you're not a bad parent. A picky eating phase is actually biologically normal. But that doesn't make it easy.

In this episode, registered dietitian (and mom of a very picky toddler) Dietitian Ann shares the evidence-based strategies that actually work — and the well-meaning things parents do that accidentally make it worse.

In this episode:

• Why picky eating is biologically normal in children ages 1.5 to 5 — and what's actually going on in their brains

• The two core concepts that change everything: low pressure exposures and the Division of Responsibility

• What "exposure" actually means (hint: your kid doesn't have to eat the food — looking at it counts)

• The meal planner's job vs. the picky eater's job — and why splitting these up is what reduces the pressure

• How schedule, where you eat, and beverages between meals all affect whether your picky eater will try something new

• Common strategies that backfire: food bribes, hiding vegetables, becoming a short-order cook, labeling your child as "picky," and over-celebrating food wins

• What to do instead — including the one phrase that works like magic ("You don't have to eat that")

• When picky eating is more than a phase and it's time to call in the experts (ARFID, sensory issues, growth concerns)

• The real story of Ann's own dinner table: the pepper, the brownie, the Matchbox cars, and a 4-year-old who still prefers cheese pizza

The bottom line: Picky eating is a long game. Think in exposures, not wins. Trust the process, give yourself grace, and remember — you can do hard things.

Every recipe in the Peas and Hoppy Meal Guides app includes picky eater tips: how to modify the meal, involve your kids in prep, offer safe foods, and add low-pressure exposure right at your own dinner table.

This isn’t just a meal planning app. It's a tool to make every aspect of family mealtime easier.

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Read the transcript of this episode, find additional resources, and see the sources used for this episode at https://app.peasandhoppiness.com/post/picky-eating-tips