When it comes to our friends, family and loved ones, do we know how they're really going? As close as we might be, sometimes it's hard to tell. In this bonus episode of 'We need to talk'. We explore the 2021 R U OK?Day message: Are they really OK? Ask them today. We chat about when and how to ask "are you OK?" and how to make it a part of your everyday. Because a conversation could change a life.

In this episode of 'We need to talk'. We tackle the big question of "what if extra support is needed?" We discuss what getting help and support might look like and how can we stand alongside our friends and loved ones as they try to find what works for them.

Life can be challenging and on top of the usual pressures people who are LGBTIQ+ might be subject to minority stress, prejudice, discrimination, violence and abuse. While most LGBTIQ+ people lead healthy and happy lives, the impact of stigma and discrimination is that LGBTIQ+ people are more likely to experience depression and anxiety and be at risk of self-harm and suicide. But what can we do to support a loved one who's impacted? In this episode we chat with Dr Vanessa Lee-Ah Mat and Tarnia Lee from Qlife about what minority stress is, how we can talk to our loved ones about what might help them and explore some safe spaces and places they can turn to for support.