We Take the Stairs Podcast – Let’s Break Bread

We are more connected than ever, yet we’ve never felt more alone. We’ve traded community for confirmation bias, creating a “table for one” that leaves no room for difference.

In this special “Side Quest” episode recorded in New York City, Rachel and Junior sit down with Trey and Haley—two new friends from different corners of the world—to discuss the breakdown of modern communication.

This organic conversation tackles:

• Why we shut down when we don’t “see ourselves” in the conversation

• The cultural shift from “Yes We Can” (The We) to the era of “All About Me”

• How algorithms and confirmation bias are fueling isolation

• The lingering impact of the pandemic on our ability to be vulnerable

• Why fear is the seed of hate, and shame is the root of separation

• The difference between fighting against an enemy and fighting for a community

If you feel exhausted by polarization or lonely despite being online, this episode offers a hopeful path toward real connection.

Timestamps / Chapters

00:00 – Welcome to NYC: A Special Side Quest
02:15 – Meet the Guests: Trey & Haley
05:40 – The Communication Breakdown: Why We Shut Down
09:00 – The Shift from “We” to “Me”
11:30 – Algorithms, Confirmation Bias, and the “Table for One”
16:15 – The COVID Effect: Why We Are Still Running Scared
24:00 – Fear is the Seed, Shame is the Root
28:00 – How to Have Conversations with People You Disagree With
38:30 – Fighting For Something vs. Fighting Against an Enemy
43:00 – The Crippling Effect of Shame on Community
51:00 – Gender Dynamics: Why Men and Women Aren’t Hearing Each Other
58:00 – The Pendulum Swing of Power and Oppression
64:00 – “We Takes”: Final Thoughts on Trust and Intention

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• How to expand your “frame” to invite others to the table

• Why discomfort is necessary for growth and connection

• How to identify when you are seeking confirmation rather than truth

• The importance of face-to-face conversation in the age of AI

• How to move past fear to rebuild trust in your community

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What does it actually mean to be a present father in a world where communication is collapsing and technology is raising our kids?

In this powerful episode of We Take the Stairs: Let’s Break Bread, we speak with an anonymous guest whose life in security keeps him unseen — but whose approach to fatherhood is anything but absent.

From raising a daughter largely on his own, to enforcing boundaries, creating emotional safety, and pushing back against influencer culture, this conversation dives deep into what children truly need: structure, honesty, tools, and accountability.

This episode challenges cultural narratives around masculinity, parenting, and freedom — and offers a grounded perspective on how parents, especially fathers, can lead without controlling and love without enabling.

Timestamps / Chapters

00:00 – Welcome to Let’s Break Bread
02:00 – Why This Guest Remains Anonymous
04:00 – Single Fatherhood and Stepping Up
06:30 – Absence of Fathers in Modern Society
09:00 – Learning Leadership Without a Model
11:00 – Military Discipline and Parenting
14:00 – Giving Kids Tools to Succeed
16:00 – Nuclear Family vs. Reality
18:30 – Odds of Success Without Parental Structure
21:00 – Teen Boundaries and Tough Love
23:30 – Safety, Awareness, and Discipline
26:00 – Teaching Structure Through Scheduling
29:00 – Supporting vs. Enabling
31:30 – Communication and Emotional Trust
34:00 – Why Parents Can’t Be Best Friends
36:30 – Honesty, Boundaries, and Truth
39:00 – COVID Kids and Social Damage
41:30 – Phones, Technology, and Connection
44:00 – Influencer Culture and False Authority
46:30 – Masculinity and Accountability
49:00 – Listening as Leadership
52:00 – Control, God, and Identity
57:00 – Living Small to Win Big
01:02:00 – Closing Thoughts on Parenting and Society

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

How fathers can lead with strength and empathy
Why discipline creates safety, not fear
The danger of influencer-driven identity
How technology impacts emotional development
Why accountability is essential for growth
How to communicate honestly with your children

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In this episode of We Take the Stairs: Let’s Break Bread, we slow down and dig deeper into a question that surfaced powerfully in Season One: How do men truly view marriage, and why does it matter?

Joined by two respected mentors and longtime husbands, Tony Robinson and Dr. Gordon Johnson, this conversation explores marriage as covenant, not convenience. We unpack what makes relationships last, why marriage isn’t “simple,” and how faith, structure, mentorship, and humility shape healthy unions over decades.

Through personal testimony, biblical reflection, and honest dialogue, this episode confronts cultural confusion around marriage, masculinity, perfection, and self-centered living. We discuss why many relationships fail before they start, how unhealed trauma affects partnership, and why true commitment requires asking not what do I want, but what am I bringing to the table?

This is a conversation for men discerning marriage, women seeking balance, parents raising sons, and anyone longing for relationships built on faith, sacrifice, and mutual growth.

Episode Chapters

00:00 – Introduction to Let’s Break Bread and the In-Between Season
03:30 – Why This Conversation on Marriage Matters
05:30 – Introducing Tony Robinson and Dr. Gordon Johnson
08:30 – Respect, Leadership, and Honoring One’s Wife
12:00 – No Marriage Is Perfect, But Commitment Is
15:00 – Growing Together vs. Growing Apart
18:30 – Marriage as Covenant, Not Convenience
22:00 – Choosing Marriage for the Right “Why”
26:00 – Trauma, Communication, and Emotional Maturity
30:00 – Faith, Structure, and Christ as the Center of the Home
34:30 – What Are You Bringing to the Table?
38:30 – The Breakdown of Marriage in Modern Culture
42:00 – Confusion, Information Overload, and Loss of Moral Center
46:00 – The Collective Good vs. Radical Individualism
49:30 – Sin, Accountability, and Picking Up the Trash
53:00 – Perfection, Repentance, and Changed Behavior
56:30 – Closing Reflections on Marriage, Faith, and Hope

Key Topics Discussed

• Marriage as a biblical covenant
• Faith-based leadership in the home
• Masculinity and emotional maturity
• Longevity in marriage
• Trauma, healing, and self-awareness
• Why relationships fail before they begin
• Christ-centered relationships
• Community, responsibility, and the collective good

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