Buckle up, we've got two Ex Mormon midlife women sharing how they went from everything matters to NOTHING matters!

Marcella is joined by her friend and partner-in-chaos Ashlyn (@this.isashlyn) to talk about something they've both been sitting with for a while: the idea that nothing matters — and why that belief might actually be the most grounding, most freeing, most feeling thing either of them has ever encountered.

As two women who grew up in the Mormon church, they were wired from the beginning to believe that everything mattered — eternally. Every decision carried cosmic weight. Fast forward to now, and a few meaningful experiences with psychedelics have completely rewired how they move through the world.

This episode is equal parts hilarious and profound. They talk about the moments that cracked them open, why "nothing matters" doesn't mean you stop caring or stop feeling — it actually means the opposite — and what it looks like to live a life where you're not performing for an outcome, you're just actually here.

If you've ever felt the relief of letting something go that was never really yours to carry, this one's for you.

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What if Mother's Day isn't actually for mothers?

Marcella Hill and her sister Sharon Johnson are back — and they're blowing up one of the most "sacred" days of the year. Spoiler: the way we celebrate Mother's Day has almost nothing to do with what it was originally intended for. And once you learn that, you can't unsee it.

But they don't stop there. This episode is a full-on audit of the things women do simply because society said so — how we dress, whether we shave, how we decide what's "right" and "wrong," and who actually gets to make those rules. Marcella and Sharon get personal about how their thinking has completely shifted since leaving the Mormon faith, and what it means to finally ask the question nobody raised them to ask:

Why am I doing this — and is it actually for me?

If you've ever followed a tradition, a rule, or a beauty standard on autopilot, this episode is going to hit. Hard.

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Sharon @sharon.a.life

Marcella @BeingMarcellaHill

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Why are so many women feeling disconnected—from their partners, their desire, and even themselves?

In this powerful episode of the Wake Her Up Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Mariah Sophocles, gynecologist and author of The Bedroom Gap, to talk about a topic that so many women experience but few openly discuss: the growing disconnect in intimacy during midlife and long-term relationships.

We dive into the real reasons this “bedroom gap” is happening and why it’s not just about libido. Dr. Sophocles shares the physical, emotional, and relational factors that impact desire, connection, and confidence for women—especially in midlife.

In this conversation, we explore:
• Why so many women feel disconnected from intimacy
• The surprising biological and emotional contributors to the “bedroom gap”
• How communication, curiosity, and self-awareness can rebuild connection
• Why this conversation is so important for women in midlife

This episode is honest, eye-opening, and incredibly validating for any woman who has ever wondered, “Is it just me?”

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