What happens when someone uses the court system not to solve problems — but to harass, control, or financially drain their ex? In this episode of The Glamorous Grind, family law attorney Ilona breaks down the reality of vexatious litigants in divorce and family court cases.

A vexatious litigant is someone who repeatedly files frivolous motions, emergency requests, or repetitive legal actions designed to delay proceedings, increase legal fees, or emotionally exhaust the other party. In family law, this can look like nonstop custody motions, repeated ex parte filings, endless requests for reconsideration, or using litigation as a form of harassment and control.

In this deep dive episode, we discuss:
• What legally qualifies someone as a vexatious litigant
• How California courts handle abusive litigation tactics
• What happens after someone is declared a vexatious litigant

If you are dealing with a high-conflict divorce, repeated court filings, custody litigation, or an ex who weaponizes the legal system, this episode provides practical insight into how courts view these behaviors and what legal remedies may be available.

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