In this candid conversation, we are opening up about the itch that often shows up in marriage around the 5–7 year mark. For us, it wasn’t about falling out of love; it was about realizing the importance of continuing to discover each other as we grew and changed.

We discuss how comparison can tempt you to wonder if the grass is greener somewhere else, and why it’s crucial to remember that God joined you and your spouse together with intention. From choosing daily to fill each other’s cup, to holding tight to the vows that keep you rooted, this episode is an honest reminder that marriage takes work, but when you put in the effort, it can be truly beautiful.

At 20 years old, J moved away from home and entered a new season where no one knew him as a minister or preacher. For the first time, he felt like a “secret agent" able to be whoever he wanted, while still knowing he carried the weight of being a child of God.

In this honest conversation, J and Tae dive into the tension of wanting to be accepted, feeling the pressure of expectation, and learning how to walk in authenticity. They discuss what it means to be comfortable with the uncomfortable, lean into your uniqueness, and release the pressure to blend in.

God doesn’t call us to hide; He calls us to shine. The people who are meant for you will be drawn to you. Sometimes, simply being who God created you to be is enough to inspire others, give them courage, and even help them find themselves.

This episode is a reminder: come out of hiding, trust God with who you are, and watch how He uses your authenticity to reach others.

Words carry weight, and as Christians, we’re called to use them wisely. In this episode, we dive into the power of the tongue, unpacking what it truly means to watch your mouth in a world where careless speech is normalized. We explore how the same words can land differently depending on who’s hearing them, and why our goal should always be to edify, not just express. It’s not just what you say, but how you say it—and the heart behind it. From the sacrifice it takes to communicate with maturity, to the discipline of self-control, this episode is a reminder that we represent Christ in every conversation. And sometimes, the goal isn’t to be right, it’s to be unified. Whether you’re speaking to friends, family, or strangers, this one will challenge you to pause, think, and speak with purpose.