In this episode, we share our first swing experience with a fully bisexual couple. We talk about what went right, what went wrong, and what we learned navigating a scenario where the men were also having sex. It was Rob’s first time being with a man in front of me, and we break down the emotions, communication, and takeaways. We also announce our new affiliation with Future Method and tease next week’s deep dive into anal play, pegging, safety, and preparation.

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**What We Talk About on this Podcast**

- Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle

- How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding

- Building a stronger, more open community together

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Together, we’re rewriting the narrative and celebrating the freedom to be your whole self — in and out of the bedroom.

We went into our first experience looking for bi play and somehow ended up with a straight couple, a laugh track, and the universe actively testing us at every turn. From missed signals and awkward timing to a husband who hadn’t even told his wife he was talking to swingers, this night had full 90s sitcom energy. It was hot, chaotic, and wildly imperfect. Along the way, we touch on our very different jealousy styles compersion versus traditional jealousy and how we navigated it all together. Proof that sometimes the messiest beginnings make the best stories.

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Join Our Subreddit Community to connect with us and with other listeners! See you there!!

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Looking for more information on mixed-orientation relationships? You can explore helpful resources at MORandMore.org

👉 https://MORandMore.org

Have a question or story you want us to share on the show? Email us!!

***Everyone will remain anonymous***

Email -> UnitedBiSwinging@gmail.com

Please leave us a rating and review to let us know if you find this podcast valuable to help us reach other people! :)

**What We Talk About on this Podcast**

- Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle

- How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding

- Building a stronger, more open community together

Please Subscribe and listen wherever you get your podcasts.

Together, we’re rewriting the narrative and celebrating the freedom to be your whole self — in and out of the bedroom.

This episode continues Rob’s story as a bi man.

In part two, the conversation covers his marriage and the process of navigating same sex attraction while trying to make sense of who he was internally. Rob shares his first coming out experience, the fear that came with it, and what it felt like to begin accepting himself.

The episode then moves into meeting his current partner and what it was like to be in a relationship built on acceptance, honesty, and trust. Together, they talk about building their bond, creating a strong foundation, growing their family, and eventually choosing to enter the swinging lifestyle together as a fully bi couple.

This episode is not about labels or advice.

It is about growth, communication, and choosing honesty even when it feels uncomfortable.

We also share that we were guests on Beyond Monogamy with Adam and Pris. Our episode aired on December 28. Please see the link below to check out their amazing podcast!!

Beyond Monogamy | Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy & Swinging

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Join Our Subreddit Community to connect with us and with other listeners! See you there!!

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Looking for more information on mixed-orientation relationships? You can explore helpful resources at MORandMore.org

👉 https://MORandMore.org

Have a question or story you want us to share on the show? Email us!!

***Everyone will remain anonymous***

Email -> UnitedBiSwinging@gmail.com

Please leave us a rating and review to let us know if you find this podcast valuable to help us reach other people! :)

**What We Talk About on this Podcast**

- Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle

- How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding

- Building a stronger, more open community together

Please Subscribe and listen wherever you get your podcasts.

Together, we’re rewriting the narrative and celebrating the freedom to be your whole self in and out of the bedroom.