In this episode of Unhinged: Separating Faith from Fiction, Michele Kus and Dr. Martin Trench dive into 1 John 2 to unpack the three stages of spiritual maturity:

Childhood — grounded in the Father’s love and forgiveness.

Youth — wrestling with doctrine and overcoming temptation.

Parenthood — living from a deep experiential knowledge of and intimacy with God.

They explore why so many churches stall out at the second stage, the vital difference between teaching and spiritual parenting, and how true maturity allows you to explore mystery without losing your foundation (or your head!).

Along the way, they touch on the psychology of resistance to change, the freedom that comes from knowing God personally, and how deconstruction and reconstruction are both part of a lifelong journey of growing in faith.

Whether you’re questioning, growing, or rebuilding your faith — this conversation will remind you that the Father loves you, He is yours, and you are His. End of story!

Check out Martin’s book, Secrets of Spiritual Growth, and his Skool community

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Welcome to the first episode of Unhinged — where faith refuses to stay polite or predictable. Michele sits down with Dr. Martin Trench as he shares his dramatic conversion story: a supernatural encounter sparked by a pastor’s prayer after a night of heavy partying. Spoiler alert: the miracle hit before the hangover.

Michele joins the conversation with her own surprising story — a search for meaning that collided with a friend’s Bible in the middle of a psychedelic trip. Their stories may be different, yet both reveal the same theme: spiritual curiosity, divine interruptions, and a grace that sneaks up on you in the least religious places.

This is how two unlikely people ended up passionately following Christ. This is where Unhinged begins.

Michele Kus, M.A. on Linktree

Dr. Martin Trench on Linktree